24 Jun 2014, 12:49 am
There certainly are quite a few arguments in the Women's Discussion subforum.
That tends to happen a lot in here.
My input - I hate having boobs. They suck. If other people like them big, I honestly don't care. That is all.
Same here. I don't even have much reason to complain; I'm a proud A-cup. I certainly don't wish they were bigger, but rather that they weren't there at all.
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24 Jun 2014, 1:51 am
There certainly are quite a few arguments in the Women's Discussion subforum.
That tends to happen a lot in here.
My input - I hate having boobs. They suck. If other people like them big, I honestly don't care. That is all.
Same here. I don't even have much reason to complain; I'm a proud A-cup. I certainly don't wish they were bigger, but rather that they weren't there at all.
Gah, I'm a DD. I seriously hate my boobs with a fiery passion.
26 Jun 2014, 3:45 am
But a lot of females hate having smaller breasts and I have to ask, why? What do you need big boobs for? Aside from societal pressure, why do you think you'll feel better about yourself if they were bigger? If you think it would give you more approval from males/females, why does it matter? Why do you think you need that validation?
I hate how my breasts feel, how much they weigh, how they look, how they make it harder for me to participate in sports (which is something I used to love as a child). I hate how they made me feel growing up and how people thought I was an adult when I was 13. I can't comprehend how anyone would willingly subject themselves to this. Its not that they make me feel dysphoric, but sometimes I think I should just get a double mastectomy before they try to kill me anyway, haha.
Sorry, I'm not trying to undermine peoples body image problems - I just don't understand it.
Story of my life, man. Especially the sports thing; I always ended up being one of the last ones to finish my laps around the track in middle school, because my big ol' knockers kept getting in the way!
Honestly, I don't understand it, either... What's so great about this kind of thing anyway? What does it accomplish? Nothing, IMO. It just feels awkward over all, and I sometimes just wish mine were much smaller... My mother even once suggested to me that I get surgery just to shrink mine down, but I'd honestly just much prefer to do that through regular exercise.
Anyway, I just hate mine overall. And I'll never understand why some woman make such a huge fuss about it.
26 Jun 2014, 5:36 pm
26 Jun 2014, 5:58 pm
Practically, and purely for myself, I'm perfectly happy 
It saves me bra-money ^_^
Some people try to make me feel insecure by referring to my small chest size but that doesn't actually hurt me [that much] as I'm perfectly aware of that. I put these [ ] in last sentence because maybe somewhere deep down it does hurt. F**** the world and people's lousy opinions, really. The value of that is an illusion. People who see me once know that I have a thin and slender body. Those who're interested know that. And I'm more than people's opinions
27 Jun 2014, 1:00 am
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27 Jun 2014, 4:17 am
It's a fact of life, people usually think the thing the don't have is better than the thing they do. I have small boobs now. I wear about a 36 B, but before I had kids I wore a C cup. I nursed them and for some reason they are now smaller. They aren't all saggy and floppy and smaller, they look like normal B cup boobs, even at 50, so I'm happy with that now I guess. I have always wanted big boobs though. I don't know why really, except maybe when you are a little girl all the grown ladies have boobs and you don't and no matter what size the grownups boobs are, they seem big to you, so maybe it's a sign of being grownup subconsciously, who knows?
Guys like books though. That's a fact and so maybe a lot of it is the idea of the bigger they are, the more attractive they are. Lots of guys like big boobs and are outspoken about it and it's probably just absorbed into the psyche.
All my friends who had big boobs hated them. A few got breast reductions. My youngest daughter wears a D and she hates her boobs. I told her I'd trade any day. She also has curly hair and hates it and wishes she had straight hair like mine. She's a big girl and wants to be smaller and my other daughter is a thin girl who wants to put some curves on. I wanted to too when I was young and my best friend was big and told me I was crazy for wishing I had her build. Girls with olive skin sometimes wish for peachy and those with peachy wish for the exotic olive complexion. Naturally curly hair is straightened while straight hair is curled. Boobs are reduced for some women while others want them bigger.
You get what you get in life and have to play the hand you are dealt usually, and lots of times people are satisfied with what they have, but unless somebody's ego is huge or they are truly the epitome of their sex, then at some point or other they will look at someone else who an attribute that is the opposite from theirs and wish, even for a second, that they had it.
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02 Jul 2014, 11:40 am
03 Jul 2014, 5:25 am
The trouble is that they simply don't shrink that much from exercise
Even when I was really skinny, they only ever went down to 36FF .... and then I really did look silly because my breasts were even more out of proportion with the rest of my body.
I would hope that your disgust was aimed at the superficial way that many people base attraction on aesthetic and arbitrary aspects of other peoples' physique, rather than being disgust at people simply having large breasts.
06 Jul 2014, 7:37 pm
The trouble is that they simply don't shrink that much from exercise
Even when I was really skinny, they only ever went down to 36FF .... and then I really did look silly because my breasts were even more out of proportion with the rest of my body.
I would hope that your disgust was aimed at the superficial way that many people base attraction on aesthetic and arbitrary aspects of other peoples' physique, rather than being disgust at people simply having large breasts.
Uh, well, I don't find fake attractive either. I am also not attracted to women with big boobs...so if that is a crime then lock me up. XD
09 Jul 2014, 10:11 pm
09 Jul 2014, 11:25 pm
The trouble is that they simply don't shrink that much from exercise
Even when I was really skinny, they only ever went down to 36FF .... and then I really did look silly because my breasts were even more out of proportion with the rest of my body.
Girl, i feel your pain. What a conundrum ! Do you lose weight, reach a healthy BMI, manage your insulin levels with minimum meds, get fit but look like a freak of Nature OR would you rather stay XXXXXXXLLLLL but take comfort in the fact that at least your breasts are in proportion with the rest of your body ?
You just can't win, can you ? There must be a special place in Hell for whoever designed such bodies !
I have small breasts but I am proud of the fact that I fed my child for a year with them.
Amen to this !
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