Are you attracted to any males outside your race?

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14 Jan 2009, 1:41 pm

I have only been attracted to white guys. There is just no chemistry with men outside my race. I've always preferred Irish/German guys with blue eyes, fair skin, and brown hair that was once blond but turned darker as he aged.



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14 Jan 2009, 2:13 pm

Hm this is a little bit of a toughie. I generally prefer the looks of white guys but I have dated a couple of Mexicans. Also, I sometimes find myself eyeing swarthy exotic-looking guys with almond eyes - They are rare but I might say that they are most attractive to me above all.

*shrug*

I tend to value uniqueness.
I married a white guy but looks had nothing to do with it.

Have to admit I'm not attracted to the looks of black people. Sorry :oops:



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14 Jan 2009, 5:10 pm

SierraBell wrote:
*Question aimed toward females only*

I have noticed that I have an attraction towards black men. And I'm white! XD
Are you implying that f*****g brown people is beastiality?
Seriously though this seems slightly racist. Girls of all colors know I'm hot.



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14 Jan 2009, 5:17 pm

^ How is it racist for her to say that she is white and likes black men? What race is she discriminating against?



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14 Jan 2009, 6:34 pm

she's against white men, as she's hinting that black men have some what of an advantage :cry: lol



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17 Jan 2009, 9:33 pm

Well, I'm accepted as white but before I got married I found myself attracted to Asian men. Even now, I tend to enjoy watching Korean dramas just to look at the guys. The Korean drama "Dao Jo Young" has the best looking warriors!! The character "Geom" is sooo handsome!



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18 Jan 2009, 7:48 pm

I don't care about race. It doesn't matter. I've dated and gone after guys of all sorts of races.

Though, I've noticed that I tend to veer towards mixed-race guys, but that's probably because I'm mixed too.



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18 Jan 2009, 8:13 pm

Gloomy_Pluto wrote:
I don't care about race. It doesn't matter. I've dated and gone after guys of all sorts of races.

Though, I've noticed that I tend to veer towards mixed-race guys, but that's probably because I'm mixed too.


Have you even gone on the website Mixedfolks.com? I used to be a regular there about a couple of years ago but I like this website better although I must admit that a member from that site named "Honeybadger" was a genius when it came to metaphysics. He/she blew my mind!



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18 Jan 2009, 8:33 pm

RightGalaxy wrote:
Gloomy_Pluto wrote:
I don't care about race. It doesn't matter. I've dated and gone after guys of all sorts of races.

Though, I've noticed that I tend to veer towards mixed-race guys, but that's probably because I'm mixed too.


Have you even gone on the website Mixedfolks.com? I used to be a regular there about a couple of years ago but I like this website better although I must admit that a member from that site named "Honeybadger" was a genius when it came to metaphysics. He/she blew my mind!


I've never been on that site, but I shall keep it in mind. :)



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19 Jan 2009, 12:18 pm

I'm most attracted to men of mixed race, they always look so interesting. plus, it's cool to guess their ethnic background hehe. I like anthropology, can't help it :p

but actually I am attracted to anyone looking in some way exotic. I've never found any local guys even slightly attractive. but maybe I just live in the wrong town :shrug:


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21 Jan 2009, 12:05 pm

RightGalaxy wrote:
Well, I'm accepted as white but before I got married I found myself attracted to Asian men. Even now, I tend to enjoy watching Korean dramas just to look at the guys. The Korean drama "Dao Jo Young" has the best looking warriors!! The character "Geom" is sooo handsome!


I watch Japanese dramas and movies to look at the guys.

This is one of the ways in which I consider myself most NT. :lol:



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25 Jan 2009, 9:18 am

I have an attraction to very tall men, and I like a mixture but to feel a strong attraction, they must be very tall, and dark haired ( is this a race? lol)



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26 Jan 2009, 9:28 pm

I seem to end up with skinny white males, with black or dark hair. It's not by choice. I've had a crush on a light brown haired boy, who is not as skinny as the other for quite awhile. And there's another guy I like that is Croatian.

I like Asian boys too as well as my own race: Indian. But there's rarely any Indian boys around, so that's probably why I'm attracted to white males. Had I lived in India it might be entirely different.
It could be that my music taste is similar to white males too.



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01 Feb 2009, 6:36 pm

I am a Black male (Zambian-Canadian), age 23.

In my teens, I was obsessed with dark skinned Black women. I rarely ever thought about White women sexually (I almost never thought about them romantically), I rarely ever watched White porn (if that's not too personal). I don't want to sound arrogant but there were a lot of White girls who told me they were attracted to me but I didn't care. I was completely indifferent to White women that most people thought were unbelievably beautiful. I was 'neutral' when it came to non-Black women of color (I guess this is still mostly true, although there are very pretty Indian, Asian, Latino etc. women). In fact, there were times when I was bored by most light skinned Black women and only chocolate skinned women caught my eye.

Something changed when I was 20/21 and I began to look at White women differently. I don't just mean sexually, I mean romantically. For a long time (and I hate to admit this), Black women actually bored me and I had to force myself to be attracted to them. I've always been very 'proud' to be Black and even now, I wouldn't actually consider dating or having sex with a White woman (no matter how much I liked her). Now, sexually, I'm equally attracted to Black women and White women but romantically, it's easier for me to fall for an attractive White woman with a nice personality than for an attractive Black woman with a nice personality (most of the time, not all of the time).

I kind of hope this changes because Black women (specifically African women) are the only ones I'm interested in actually dating. I have interests (ie. veganism, science etc. ) that Black women are stereotypically not interested in and I live in a predominately White neighborhood, that might have something to do with it.