What are some ways to make myself more sexually appealing?

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I'd say focus on having good hygiene, being confident, and being as healthy as you possibly can. That means regular exercise, eating well, getting enough sleep, etc. I've found that attractiveness is very related to how healthy you look. Same with good hygiene.

Make-up... I dunno, I don't wear it really, but I've found that putting lotion on your face and wearing chapstick/lip gloss can make a huge difference. It's easy to remember and it's good for you, too.

And a final note, I've found that the best relationships are the ones that you don't actively seek out. Being available is one thing, but coming off as desperate is an entirely different manner. The latter is not what you want to do. Oh, and treat everyone around you with respect. It's a very easy way to better your reputation.

I agree as a man scars don't really bother me. My last girlfriend had quite a number and they didn't bother me. One other thing I'd like to add as a guy is smell. A light interesting scent makes me perk my ears up and give a girl a second or third look.

Some women can really pull of the short hair look, like Wynona Ryder for exemple. Also the back of a woman's neck is considered very sexy by some men and with short hair or a ponytail they can see it better
As an alternative to make-up I prefer trying to make my skin look naturally more beautiful with things like beauty masks and such.

stay fit and healthy, avoid bad habits (smoking is the worst!) dont get drunk, tipsy is fine.
seems youve got your hair and clothes sorted, thats great,
i wear glasses and ive never worn any makeup, thats never been a problem for me, i still get plenty of compliments.
if your gunna wear anything that shows your legs, make sure that they are freshly shaved.
wear a bra that emphasises your boobs, push up bra/ wonder bra, you dont need to show any cleavage for people to notice you have great boobs. i dont know what size you are but for slimmer girls a tight top will emphasise boobs and a skinny waist without showing any thing, for bigger girls a top that holds the boobs seperate and then flows dowm loosely over the belly will emphasise boobs and minimise bulge, jeans that hug your arse are great but dont get them too tight or youll have muffin tops (skin/fat squeezed out and hanging over the top)

the biggest thing though is to feel sexy in your self.

i used to get a lot of interest that i completely missed because i didnt feel sexy enough to warrant it, if a guy was flirting or made nice comments, i blew it off as him just being a nice guy and it never even occurred to me he might actually be interested. i remember a guy asked me out once in front of his friends and i was just completely confused and said no because i thought that there was no way he could be serious. later found out that he was serious and took quite a knock from my immediate dismissal. a nice girl would have let him down gently and given a good reason (theres someone else... im not ready for a relationship at the moment... im a lesbian... etc). i just thought that he was trying to have a laugh with his mates at my exspense, and i got a bit of a reputation after that meant guys didnt want to ask me out! now theres self-fulfilling for you :/

anyway i grew up, became much more confident in my own ability to be sexy and started to notice that things id been blowing off as good manners and sypathy before, were actually genuine interest and when i reognised it for what it was i could start to flirt back and really have fun with it, and the more i noticed, the sexier i felt, and the more i noticed.

im no longer the frigid b***h that thinks shes too good for everyone, im now hopefully! a fun, aproachable, confident woman who can flirt . also since i now know when guys are flirting with me, i also now know when to back off if i dont want to give the wrong impression and so avoid becoming a pricktease.

i wouldnt be at all surprised if you are already getting interest from guys but are just not recognising it because you dont feel sexy enough to accept it yet.

ways to feel sexier are;
be fit and healthy, no one feels sexy when they are ill and cant run.
masturbation, proven to boost confidence and make you feel sexier.
dress comfortably in clothes YOU like. you wont feel sexy when your feet are covered in sore,s your wearing a colour that hurts your eyes and your jeans are so tight you cant sit down.
do something extra, pretty underwear, an extra nice bath, a dash of sparkle on your eyes.. not all at once, and not the same everyday or youll stop noticing it. just do something a little bit different or a little bit extra to make you feel pampered and special

and most importantly - HAVE FUN! if you spend all your time fretting about it youll be too stressed to notice when people are noticing you, so RELAX

good luck,

ZooZoo