I lost my virginity against my will but I doubt anyone would call it rape. I think aspie girls are easier to take advantage of. Boys, especially in their teenage years, are supremely horny and some of them can't stop once their engines are revved. They didn't call it date rape in the 70's and sexual harassment was a term we were just learning. Since then, I've been pressured into situations I was uncomfortable with. Then, I was married for 20years. He cheated and gave me an STD, which finally woke me up to doing something.
What makes me sickest is how long he was cheating, some of it right in front of me, and I was CLUELESS. He kept my family away so there was no one to tell me.
I dated a few men after the divorce but they're all the same except with Viagra... gross. I've been single now for 13 years. I could date, I get asked, but I always make an excuse. For now, I'd rather be single and alone than go through a betrayal like that again.
Now, if it was George Clooney asking, I could change my mind...
To the younger girls, I can only say proceed with great caution. Get yourself a wing-woman, or gay wing-man you can trust.
Get a dog.
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