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23 Mar 2013, 11:16 am

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He obvously took notice of the fact you told him to leave you alone since he has disappeared. A real creep wouldn't do that.


Yeah, that's true.

Allow me to therefore redefine my definition of CREEP;

Not only someone that makes you feel physcially sick to be near them or think of them or look at them, but someone who DOES NOT TAKE A HINT AND DOES NOT LEAVE YOU ALONE NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR DO.
Someone who persists and gets even worse the more you tell them to leave you alone.

I had a real creep do this to me, and it escalated into me having to threaten him with an injunction.
It was all horrible.

That was the only thing that worked in the end. I had several legs to stand on (metaphorically speaking), and I'm sure he knew this.


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26 Mar 2013, 3:55 am

Cuckooflower wrote:
pokerface wrote:
He obvously took notice of the fact you told him to leave you alone since he has disappeared. A real creep wouldn't do that.


Yeah, that's true.

Allow me to therefore redefine my definition of CREEP;

Not only someone that makes you feel physcially sick to be near them or think of them or look at them, but someone who DOES NOT TAKE A HINT AND DOES NOT LEAVE YOU ALONE NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR DO.
Someone who persists and gets even worse the more you tell them to leave you alone.

I had a real creep do this to me, and it escalated into me having to threaten him with an injunction.
It was all horrible.

That was the only thing that worked in the end. I had several legs to stand on (metaphorically speaking), and I'm sure he knew this.

Yes. I would add, also men who target women whom they know cannot back them off, or who don't have the skills to do so.



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29 Mar 2013, 9:26 am

Cuckooflower wrote:
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These kind of men. Creepy. Especially when they follow you on the streets.



This guy is sexy in one sense (he is physicaly attractive, regardless of inner intentions), but I can see how he could be creepy in manner. Or, ''creepy'' is not the word I would use. Maybe scary, or harassing, or annoying, or intrusive.

To me, creepy is when I find a man physically repugnant on top of his behaviour being predatory. And when he is going for women well below his age, and has a nasty manner as well.
Sometimes young guys can just be vulgar, without necessarily being creepy.

I don't know.


Believe me, this guy is vular.
Personally i dont find him physically attractive AT ALL.



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31 Mar 2013, 9:07 am

It may be that I have the opposite off this problem.

When an interesting or unusual man is chatting to me I neither realise he is is creepy or that he is hitting on me until someone else tells me so.

Family and aquaintences have called my current long term boyfriend creepy.



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31 Mar 2013, 9:15 am

Cafeaulait wrote:
Cuckooflower wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
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These kind of men. Creepy. Especially when they follow you on the streets.



This guy is sexy in one sense (he is physicaly attractive, regardless of inner intentions), but I can see how he could be creepy in manner. Or, ''creepy'' is not the word I would use. Maybe scary, or harassing, or annoying, or intrusive.

To me, creepy is when I find a man physically repugnant on top of his behaviour being predatory. And when he is going for women well below his age, and has a nasty manner as well.
Sometimes young guys can just be vulgar, without necessarily being creepy.

I don't know.


Believe me, this guy is vular.
Personally i dont find him physically attractive AT ALL.


Just hanging around him will get your ass shot in a drive by :P. I kinda like him. He looks like Lajon from Sevendust.



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31 Mar 2013, 11:12 pm

Kookygirl wrote:
I think the reason that aspie women are more prone to these creeps is that our body language sets us apart from other women, maybe being more shy and less likely to retaliate or humiliate them. I suppose we give their ego a boost, especially if they embarrass us in front of their friends.


I agree...