Ladies: What's up with creepy men?

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Well thats reasonable CRD, but many NT women call guys they find actively unattractive "creepy" and use the term fall too liberally IMO. Padium: I dont know what the odds are for someone to be bipolar but I DO know that bipolar, unlike AS, is EQUALLY common in both sexes though it affects women differently than it effects men. But what I hear from women about sex STRONGLY correlates to their age(range): Young women complain that all men want is sex whereas slightly older men complain both about difficulty getting an organism AND about how hard it is to find a man who's good in bed.


Ok let me try again.... Being a WOMAN and as far as I know or care to know NT also I don't live under a rock and interact with other women all the time. I don't know any women over the age of 15 that call a guy creepy just for not being "cute" maybe they stare at them or stand outside the girls lockerroom at the gym trying to see in. That and things like that is what will get you all creepy by a woman thats not just a plain old witch and who would want to date a mean woman anyway.
Also to adress some other posts on this thread moaning the lack of women willing to give it up. First nothing is stopping you from dealing with your own needs. Second nobody should have sex with someone who thay don't want to, sorry you wouldn't want to give it up to some radom guy because he thinks your cute why should women have to give it to you because you think they're cute. Also there are women who are willing to have sex for money or because they enjoy radom encounters if thats all your looking for I'm sure you'll beable to find it somewere on the internet or the phonebook if you live some where it's leagal.

I have never called someone creepy or thought him creepy just because I was unattracted to him yet he persisted in hitting on me. I have always found that merely annoying. For me to think of someone as "creepy" he has to actively make me nervous, pose some sort of vague threat that puts my alerts up. There have been a few stories in this thread of situations that would definately put my alerts up. Early in the thread is a story about a creep saying to the poster "I want to be a dog and have you put a leash on me..." and other things of that nature. That is creepy. That goes beyonf mere hitting on a woman who isn't attracted to you and has escalated into threatening but in such a vague way that the woman just shivers and thinks "creepy" rather than reaching for the mace.

"Creep" doesn't mean unnatttractive guy hitting on me. It means guy who presents a threat but that threat is so vague that I'm at yellow alert rather than red alert. This sounds similar to other women posting. There is a difference between the guy who innocently hits on you even though you aren't ineterested and the guy who keeps on doing it in a vaguely threatening way and with a smirk onhis face even as you are visibly uncomfortable.

If a man is very persistent when a woman doesn't want him to be, that is creepy. And if a woman isn't happy with a behaviour, she's entitled to say so.

And if you're annoyed when women find some men's behaviour creepy, you're welcome to go start your own thread in the mens section where you may vent to your heart's content.

I think it's allowed for women to define what they find creepy. Generally women don't label behaviour as such just for giggles. I'm pretty sure there is something for men anyway, aspieguy was making noises about it a while back so take a look in one of the adult sections.

So nobody can ever touch on this subject without you running in here? Look, you are taking this thread way too personally.
I don't ask you to be sympathetic, but the ladies here that want to discuss their experiences are not talking about you and are not directly responsible for whatever has happened in your life. You are not compelled to read this thread, so if this upsets you that much- leave.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts101191-start15.html

I wanted to bring this thread back to it's original purpose of sharing and discussing.
Thank you for the show of support CRD. My pleasure

I am yet to have an overly creepy encounter in person, or if I have I was oblivious to it, as I tend not to leave the house much. I did have a really creepy incident online not to long ago. I was talking to someone I thought was a friend, and the conversations got more and more sexual in nature, until it was obvious he was more interested in my virginity than anything else. I blocked him on all my accounts right after I realized it. Thankfully he hasn't tried more than once to get in contact with me again.

Man I hate when that happens. The block button is a boon. <3