Scared and disgusted of pregnancy

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I know that's the physical recovery time. But now, your boobs aren't sexy - they're tools for feeding the baby and the vagina was just a baby door. You get stretch marks all over, your breasts get saggy, and your vagina stretches a little. Yep, real sexy.

The vagina is quite elastic which snap back into its original shape and if you perform Kegel exercises which strengthen PC muscles thus forth improving sex as well as being able to deliver children with less difficulty. I am to the point where I can massage my romana's with my yoni and not move at all to have him release.

My bra size is 42E so I understand your concern but if you have taken strength training like I have, You would build strong back muscle which prevents sagging although wearing the proper bra helps. I suggest purchase a full set of body weights then run half a mile every day, Start with a light configuration then slowly add on weight when you become accustomed to the current weight: This is the best way to bodily strength, although I was forced to wear heavy body weights for three months on end but I can lift a couch easily with one arm, Hehe.

Let me tell you a story, one April Fool's day, I received a gift from my romana's father that was a small box full of teabags. I decide to try one later that evening and it had a pleasant taste to it then next morning I utilized another one; Later that evening, My romana and I are engaging in our "playtime", He started stimulating my nipples by suckling on them then Milk started to flow out. He was surprised but his expression turned to a rather lust filled one, He had me ontop of his lap, penetrating me while he suckled on my bosom and thrusting fast as he could. It was pure ecstasy, I felt my innards flutter with excited joy and the sensation of the milk flowing from me.

The next week and a half I was unable to stop lactating and my husband had a huge libido spike, When He came home from work, He went directly to me to "play" with me and made our "playtime" last for several hours each day. Do not perceive me wrong, I enjoy the attention but I had a little bit of a moral concern of the hormonal "High" I was experiencing, I felt flushed and hot as well as desiring sex and his affection. I felt the need to breed. We ended up having sex all over are apartment

I'm a little sensitive to certain hormones so I would understand that the oxytocin would be the culprit for the Estreutic mindset for mating plus the scent of his testosterone laden sweat is highly arousing for me.

I don't think there's anything wrong with being afraid of being pregnant - it is an enormous strain on the body and you do undergo a lot of changes. Had some fun reading the responses from people who got pregnant though - I have no intention of having a baby and were I to fall pregnant accidentally (unlikely, given that I don't have sex very often - once in about every 5 or so years...) I would have an abortion. Sorry if that offends anyone - but I would.

I've been pregnant once - and got a great kid out of it.
I did not find pregnancy scary.
The only thing that really upset me was the fact that my boobs got quite a lot bigger - I had not been told that would happen so I was shocked.

But there were many annoying things: swelling belly is not comfortable at all, and I had heartburn, nausea, sore gums, couldn't sleep well, needed to pee all the time, get new clothes...
I was thrilled to be having a baby, but I really can't see why some women get so delighted about pregnancy - it's a major nuisance!

Giving birth was the opposite. I was told so many horror stories about that, but it turned out to be nothing worse than a night of hard physical work.

If you are so very scared of pregnancy but you do want a baby I think I have to agree with others here - you should try to get rid of your anxiety somehow.

My heartbeat races, my throat closes, and I feel scared when I read this thread! Hopefully when I am older I can get used to the idea of childbirth.

I never had this problem.

I like children, I am good with children but childbirth sounds terrifying. As my PE teacher once said, childbirth is like "pooping out a watermelon"

I completely relate to this thread. I'm not fond of children, NEVER wanted children, and in particular never wanted to be pregnant. The whole idea of being pregnant and carrying a living being inside me completely grossed me out. I couldn't help imagining a cow or a dog giving birth every time I thought about it. I had "accidental" unprotected sex (I had forgotten that my doctor had just taken me off birth control pills after 14 years because of health problems) and the two weeks before my period started were horrific for me. I was so freaked out that I imagined reaching up inside my vagina to rip my uterus out. Violent imagery I know, but that's how bad it was. I wasn't pregnant thank God, and it really drove home how strong my emotions were on the subject. I had a hysterectomy in November -- multiple fibroids and severe endometriosis -- and I couldn't be happier. Now if I could just find someone to have sex with and test it out...heheh

First the bad news. My experience of pregnancy was not a good one. I hated the changes that happened in my body and the intrusive examinations, even though I had a very easy pregnancy physically. The birth was also a difficult one. I felt quite ambivalent as it was a planned pregnancy and I was happy at the prospect of having a child, but found my mood got rather low during the whole experience.

The good news is that it was worth it. I am not someone who has a natural rapport with children and tend to have to fake cooing over other people's babies. However, the feeling I had the first time I held my daughter in my arms was one of the happiest moments of my life. She is now 11 and I completely understand and use the phrase "it's different when it's your own".

Sorry since this doesn't help but it made me think about today when I saw a video of a dog having surgery to have heart worms pulled out of its pulmonary artery and jugular vein in my animal health class. They looked like very long squirmy, bloody rice noodles. My professor said it would be the nastiest video we ever saw. It was not. The nastiest video I ever saw was of a woman giving birth in my health/sex ed class in high school. I'm never ever ever ever going to get pregnant ever. And if I do I think I'll get an abortion. If anyone thinks that makes me a murderer or something, I actually have no problem with removing of a clump of parasitic cells.

Also, when I was in middle school I got to go to this science thing at the state university and it was on human health so they had all of this... human meat- flesh, bones, organs. I was absolutely fine with all of it until I got to the placentas. And then I passed out. I certainly do not want to have to deal with one of those things.
I think if I ever want... offspring... I'll adopt one of the many kids that doesn't have a home or family. There are so, so many I'm sure I'd be able to adopt somehow, even if they did hold AS against me, which I don't think they would.

Terrorized, I never want my body to be in that pain and I just know I'll fail as a mother. I don't even want kids and I hate being touched. Then I fear so much this'll happen with somebody who'll just leave me. So sex is horror but then I get the feeling of being forever alone because nobody is interested in a relationship that'll go nowhere. Then I wonder why I even care, as I can always become independent. I don't know, maybe I do have a phobia too.

Disgusted, no. In fact, I've always be intensely interested in pregnancy and all things about it (I wanted to be a midwife until I realised you needed a great deal of empathy).

But terrified? Right on the mark. Terrified to the point that I don't even have sex anymore, not that this bothers me much.. In this stage of my life (I'm 21), I feel I wouldn't be a very good parent at all. I'm still very selfish and I still hold onto my far-fetched dreams, like travelling around the world, and I know a baby would put a complete stop to that. The idea of my body changing around me does unsettle me but I think I'll deal with it better when it's changing for a baby I actually want. Rather now it would just distress me beyond comprehension because it's something I really don't want.

I've never experienced it, but I'm scared of becoming pregnant not because of what I'll look like, but because of what may happen to me or the baby during that time. You see, my mother miscarried before having me and my brother, and shortly after having me, my mother went into a seizure (she did recover, though). What if the same thing happens to me? I'm on medication for seizures and migraines which I probably can't take while pregnant, so this makes it even more scarier.

It's a relief to know I'm not alone in my pregnancy-phobia.

As long as I can remember, I've always felt this extreme distaste toward the idea of pregnancy. I've never wanted to be pregnant or experience childbirth. I used to be creeped out by babies as well but, as I get older, I could imagine adopting (it won't happen but I'm not as bothered by babies as I used to be as long as I'm not the person having one). When I see pregnant women, I have to consciously work at keeping my face arranged in a way that doesn't express horror. I've even had nightmares where I'm suddenly seven months pregnant. Getting my tubes tied was the greatest gift I could have given myself.

Sometimes I consider seeing a psychologist to explore this fear but it doesn't adversely impact my life, I don't think, so it's low on my priority list.

Anyhow, no, you're not alone.

Oh, if you're tall and/or have a long torso, the maternity section is a great place to find t-shirts that won't look unflatteringly cropped. That's probably the only pregnancy thing I'm comfortable with- the longer, stretchy t-shirts.

For the record if I had a girl and got her pregnant and she felt insecure and afraid that I dont want to have sex with her, or be intimate as much, id still do so! Id be careful after 6 months though because i would be afraid the positions would harm the baby!

i'm not scared of pregnancy itself, but I think it is disgusting. i'd be more scared of the implications of having a baby growing in my that will be sucking up my life for the next 2 decades. good thing theres plenty of procreators out there to do it instead of me.