Can you NOT have children?

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I can't. and if you'd like how has this affected you? I had my Uterus/Ovaries taken out at birth and had a medical thing done and my doctor asked if I had a boyfriend I said no he said good because if I was to have sex it'd kill me. So I have no female parts so to speak down there (Hell without a birth patch to produce estrogen I wouldn't have developed breasts normally!) I'm screwed up physically (this among other physical issues) and Psychologically (Having AS and upsetting EVERYONE IN MY ENVIRONMENT) BTW I REFUSE to use the term mental it's stupid IMO it should be changed to Psychological issues or conditions NOT Mental!! !! (Although I've heard AS is neuro not mental anyway LOL!) I feel upset seeing 2 people child/adult and knowing that must be "mom" both are obese. I wish I could pass on my genes and that kids behavior would be like me (although I must admit I see myself in my 2 little sisters who we adopted) still that child being part you/husband is a special bond that I'll never feel.

Yeah, I had one child I carried to term, perhaps six or eight actual miscarriages after feeling them under my heart. Now, of course, I am too old to have children. I try not to think about it.

Merle