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YoshiPikachu
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02 Sep 2010, 11:24 pm

So, there are guys at my school that freak me out and they are ugly! The one guy me and my friends call him Ugly Face becuase his face is just that, UGLY! And the other guy. One day me and my friends we sitting at break time and he comes over to us and starts asking us,"Have you ever had Sex?" "Are you pregnant?" OK really I could not believe it, I was shocked! He got in trouble with one of the teachers, but he will make weird sounds when we walk by him. And I have to go to school with him for two ore years. :roll: I hope I don't have any classes with him this year or next year.

Has anything like this happened to anyone else?


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03 Sep 2010, 6:12 am

Maybe he's decided that negative attention is better than no attention at all. That's a shame, because he might be at heart a really nice interesting person. I don't know why some people act like physical unattractiveness is a crime, but they do.



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03 Sep 2010, 2:45 pm

Calling him Ugly Face isn't very nice.
Maybe he heard you and is just trying to even up the playing field so you'll leave him alone.
People can't help how they look, it's shallow to judge him by that.



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03 Sep 2010, 11:02 pm

We don't say it so he can hear us.


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04 Sep 2010, 4:29 am

YoshiPikachu wrote:
We don't say it so he can hear us.


Why does it matter if he can hear you?
You're still being shallow + unfair.



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04 Sep 2010, 10:11 am

The 2nd dude just sounds creepy.

There was a guy I used to go to school with who used to crack his neck joints several times during class. Also, sitting in class in a scary trance while listening to "stabbity stab kill kill stab" death metal on a walkman isn't very appealing either, as one other guy used to do. He was voted most likely to go on a school shooting rampage :P.



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04 Sep 2010, 5:30 pm

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The 2nd dude just sounds creepy.

There was a guy I used to go to school with who used to crack his neck joints several times during class. Also, sitting in class in a scary trance while listening to "stabbity stab kill kill stab" death metal on a walkman isn't very appealing either, as one other guy used to do. He was voted most likely to go on a school shooting rampage :P.


Oh my.


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09 Sep 2010, 3:45 am

I remember in middle school, there was this tall, skinny, pale guy. I never heard one word out of him, but I'll never forget the polo-"ish" shirts he'd wear (and intentionally not button). I had so many questions I wanted to ask him, mostly about why he didn't button up.



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09 Sep 2010, 12:48 pm

I remember boys like that in elementary school/junior high. I felt sorry for them, but at the same time I was intimidated by them and never got involved with them.

I think it's awful that you're judging someone by his looks, but at least you're not insulting him directly.



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09 Sep 2010, 1:30 pm

blue_bean wrote:
The 2nd dude just sounds creepy.

There was a guy I used to go to school with who used to crack his neck joints several times during class. Also, sitting in class in a scary trance while listening to "stabbity stab kill kill stab" death metal on a walkman isn't very appealing either, as one other guy used to do. He was voted most likely to go on a school shooting rampage :P.


Lol, he was probably just focused while in that stance, not angry.


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09 Sep 2010, 5:04 pm

emlion wrote:
YoshiPikachu wrote:
We don't say it so he can hear us.


Why does it matter if he can hear you?
You're still being shallow + unfair.


Agreed.

Why do you have to go to school with him two more years if you're 19? Are you in college? People shouldn't be asking weird questions like that anyway, but especially not in college.


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09 Sep 2010, 5:47 pm

Most of the guys that like me are so fugly and have ridiculous personalities. I don't date them and turn them down because I don't want to be embarassed by their looks and especially personality. I dated a guy who ALWAYS ate with his retainer in and then asked me to make out with him. Then another guy I dated was OBSESSED with eminem, he'd say to me "I look more and more like eminem everday!"
I can't date a guy that I don't find attractive inside and out.



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09 Sep 2010, 6:19 pm

I have to go to a Special Ed school until I am 21.

IdahoRose wrote:
I remember boys like that in elementary school/junior high. I felt sorry for them, but at the same time I was intimidated by them and never got involved with them.

I think it's awful that you're judging someone by his looks, but at least you're not insulting him directly.


It's not just his looks. I forgot to say that he will follow us. And he smells. And one time he told someone to go to hell for no reason.


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14 Sep 2010, 12:28 am

i'm really ashamed of this thread. some really shallow opinions here. seriously, judging men according to their looks? fine if you don't like certain guys - everybody doesn't have to get along. but saying nasty things about them and mocking them behind their backs? not cool.


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14 Sep 2010, 9:26 am

hyperlexian wrote:
i'm really ashamed of this thread. some really shallow opinions here. seriously, judging men according to their looks? fine if you don't like certain guys - everybody doesn't have to get along. but saying nasty things about them and mocking them behind their backs? not cool.


This. The OP is just furthering the mean girl stereotype. So you don't find him attractive - so what? What does that have to do with him being a weirdo? How does it help anyone to make fun of him? Maybe he's an Aspie - he just doesn't know how to talk to people, and thinks that as long as you're reacting to him, he's gotten somewhere. He obviously has terrible interpersonal skills, and that may or may not be his fault.

More importantly, what if someone thought the same of you? Whether or not you heard them making fun of you, wouldn't it hurt?


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14 Sep 2010, 5:34 pm

nekowafer wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
i'm really ashamed of this thread. some really shallow opinions here. seriously, judging men according to their looks? fine if you don't like certain guys - everybody doesn't have to get along. but saying nasty things about them and mocking them behind their backs? not cool.


This. The OP is just furthering the mean girl stereotype. So you don't find him attractive - so what? What does that have to do with him being a weirdo? How does it help anyone to make fun of him? Maybe he's an Aspie - he just doesn't know how to talk to people, and thinks that as long as you're reacting to him, he's gotten somewhere. He obviously has terrible interpersonal skills, and that may or may not be his fault.

More importantly, what if someone thought the same of you? Whether or not you heard them making fun of you, wouldn't it hurt?


Completely agree. I had to bear the brunt of being taunted and made fun of behind my back throughout my whole life. I'm not particularly attractive and took verbal and physical beatings from peers, both male and female. In fact when I went to college today there was a group of guys that pointed me out and called me "bitter b***h" because I noted a mistake the professor made during class. Insulting people behind their back is just as bad as doing it right in front of them.