Explaining to the doctor:

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i'm sure there's a more appropriate forum I could discuss this on, but i'd prefer the opinions here.

so basically, me and my boyfriend like to engage in (at my request) pretty harsh spankings, and this morning we had a little fun & i'm a little bruised, which is no problem to me- all part of the fun.

anyway; i have to go to the doctors tomorrow morning for something which involves me having to be naked (what the reason is, isn't relevant to anything i'd like to discuss) but, what do I tell her about the bruising/marks?

should i even have to explain myself or just say nothing? i'm sure she's seen things like that before etc. but it's still embarrassing to me.

if the question doesn't come up I'd let well enough alone, if it does just tell the truth. Of course bruising might be a sign to back it down a notch or two, but it's your life.

^what the budgenator said.

i never keep my mouth shut though. i'd probably blurt something out.

i think that bruises on the rear are pretty obviously from sexual play. bruises elsewhere may cause questions, i think.

yeah; i don't have bruises anywhere else.
it's all at my asking, aha.

okay; i'll just leave it, but she's quite a chatty doctor so she might ask, but that's okay because we're consenting adults and we can do as we please. :3

thanks - i was just worried she might think he's hurting me or something - she knows my history with abusive exes and wouldn't want her to jump to the wrong conclusions.

Abusive husbands wouldn't show up in only one location like that. Doctors are accustomed to weird sex injuries. And if yours isn't, they should be.

She laughed and said "oh dear, who's been a bad girl then?" and then carried on with the appointment.
gosh, i always worry over nothing. >.<