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zeldapsychology
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05 Dec 2010, 12:08 am

This is about a women issue more so than dating which is why I put this here. I'm not sure if it should go with adult topics so sorry. Outside of mentioning AS (as another topic here talks about) I have a physcial condition basically I can't have intercourse how/when do I tell a boyfriend this and how do you think he will react. I'm more scared of telling him this than AS or any of my other conditions (I have medical supplies no big deal IMO) but the intercourse issue how will a boyfriend see it will he dump me? I'm so scared to tell a guy. :-(



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05 Dec 2010, 12:42 am

zeldapsychology wrote:
how/when do I tell a boyfriend this and how do you think he will react.


Do this before you consider him a boyfriend.

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how will a boyfriend see it will he dump me? I'm so scared to tell a guy. :-(


If this is a problem for him, then he's not for you.



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09 Dec 2010, 8:08 pm

menintights wrote:
zeldapsychology wrote:
how/when do I tell a boyfriend this and how do you think he will react.


Do this before you consider him a boyfriend.

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how will a boyfriend see it will he dump me? I'm so scared to tell a guy. :-(


If this is a problem for him, then he's not for you.


Completely agree on both points.



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09 Dec 2010, 11:59 pm

ditto the replies.



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10 Dec 2010, 2:25 pm

i'd like to say something insightful but honestly, menintights already gave the perfect response.


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10 Dec 2010, 2:57 pm

You could look for an asexual guy who doesnt desire intercourse.


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20 Dec 2010, 3:41 pm

Well, if my theoretical girlfriend (I'm a guy) told me she couldn't have sex with me ever, I'd be okay with that. If I just wanted sex, I'd get a hooker.

Although, a significant quirk about me, I don't want sex. Naked women just... don't turn me on. Like, a hot girl who's wearing something does. I think it's a really strong clothing fetish, maybe. I don't know if it's an AS thing, but you might want to go for a guy with my... abnormality.


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