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zeldapsychology
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04 Jan 2011, 9:34 am

Since this is a women topic and not a oh feel bad/depressed one I thought it should go here not the Haven and it's adult (whether it should be under the adult forum I don't know) This IS about women so I thought a women board would fit this issue sorry to upset/offend anyone. :-) Anyway as I've mention in the past I had a surgery and can't have intercourse. I was watching a show (about sex) last night and a women talked about getting an orgasm from her washer and the laundry basket! Without sexual organs I'll never fully understand sex outside of s**t seen on tv.

OH! AH! Banging each other rubbing up on each other in a bed (which IMO looks weird/sickening.) Perhaps even if I could I question if hell I'd maybe be asexual since I don't get enjoyment from those sex scenes on drama shows. Sadly I was excited/freaking out over a new Mario game being announced. (Super Mario Galaxy 2) and was like OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!! !! OMG! and my friend (a guy from WP I was chatting with on 360) said Are you having an orgasm so I guess it = getting super excited or something stupid like that. or getting "turned on" or whatever. As I said I feel bad I'll never understand sex for real. :-(



Malisha
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04 Jan 2011, 11:59 am

I'm not sure....it's hard to determine without knowing the nuts and bolts. In which case, it might be better moved to the adult forum.
Not able to have intercourse=/=unable to receive pleasure. It would take quite a lot of surgery to render one incapable of pleasure, although the inability to have successful heterosexual intercourse/become pregnant might be affected by hysterectomy or some vaginal surgeries.

There are plenty of people who have had many medical problems (including paraplegics and quadriplegics) who still enjoy a healthy and satisfying sex life, if you're interested in that sort of thing.

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I'm not excited by sex scenes in drama shows or movies, either. Eeew.