Making out and One night stands

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I'm new here, so please excuse me if this was discussed before: I'm a very.very open minded-liberal gal, but there's a thing about meeting someone at a party or something, dance a little and then let the other person put their tongue in my mouth that upsets me big time. The one time i did it (because it was the national holidays and wanted to experiment was was all about) I felt quite disgusted.
It's just me or someone else feels the same?

I feel the same way I have to be very comfortable with a person before I allow any type of personal intimate contact to take place no matter if its touching or if I ever kiss a person or even more intimate physical contact-sex on the first date-never no mater what.

I would at least like to know if he brushes regularly first.

hate it. People tell me just to find a girl. Or hook up. Or go to the bar or something.

Why in the world would I want to share my personal spaces with someone I don't know very well?

I just dont go there b/c I dont like the idea of fooling around/being intimate w someone im not in a relationship w and im carzy sentimental so i relate intimacy to love which one night stands arent.thats just me.

Some times I can hook up randomly with a girl/guy and some times I don't it all depends on the mood I am in.

i did the one night stand with guys several times, because i cant handle a relationship and that's all i'll be able to have anyway, but i dont kiss on the mouth. it's disgusting.

I hate that.
Even when I see other people do this, I'm offended. It's just so cheap. I can't help but complain,"Ahh, boy, here we go again with this stupid s**t." Do these adults realize that they're acting like horney middle schoolers?

I thought I was really odd on this, but yeah, I don't really like kissing either. I told my girlfriend about it and she said she doesn't either, and we don't open mouth kiss anymore. I never really quite believed her though, I'd never heard of anyone else not liking it before.

Yes I am slow to give hugs, and very slow to kiss someone. Especially with tongue. I believe I had some relationships where I didn't let them kiss me until the second or third date. The first kiss is sometimes brief.

I would NEVER kiss someone unless I wanted a long-term relationship with them. I wouldn't feel comfortable enough doing that with just any person.

Tongue in mouth in any situation is a no-no for me - I've NEVER understood this, it's just uncomfortable and although I'm told I kiss well that way I never know what the hell I'm supposed to do during such kissing. I could kiss someone closed-mouth when out at a party or club, but nothing more than that - there is an aspect of me that would like to be able to be that casual about sex, but I just couldn't do that.

I prefer it.

Yes to making out. No to one night stands.

Urgh,

Honestly, I wish I could do this. But I can't. It would be the perfect solution to having a high sex drive.

Instead I drive myself nuts because I have a high sex drive and there is no way of dealing with it outside of a relationship.
And especially, like at the moment, when I get wobbly emotionally, ONS just start looking like a really good option.
Not that I could ever actually do one. I would probably run away from the guy like usual.
Even if I didn't run away from him I would ruin it by looking for a nice, sweet considerate guy (the complete opposite of what ONS is supposed to be!)

I'm such a hopeless idiot sometimes.