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Girls, I've a question for you.

What do you find odd about guys? There is always talk of a language barrier but I only hear the guys side (because I know it). But, when dating an NT male, whats weird about them? Is there anything you dont get? What about an aspie male? Is there anything you dont get? Do we confuse you and if so, how?

I'm interested in hearing how girls perceive guys.

nature's little secret

Most people think that in the courting game, men are the first to initiate the courtship. But that is completely incorrect. The reality is that in almost all successful pickups, it is the woman who seduces the man without saying a single word.

In other words, a woman will initiate the game by using body language to signal that she is interested, available and receptive. That's right boys, you heard it here first.

The Player always gets his woman, not only because he's a great-looking guy, but also because he's a slick talker who doesn't fear rejection. The Player knows how to read a woman's body language to perfection.

By reading a woman's physical lingo, I can spot a woman across the room (or bar) who's either very unhappy with her man, aching to satisfy her sexual needs, or simply wants to engage in a pleasant conversation.

read her body, not her mind

Most gentlemen fail to realize the importance of body language. Instead, they try to focus on reading a woman's mind. They stand around for hours holding a drink in their hands wondering if she's interested or not. Little do they know that the answer lies in her stance.

Forget about trying to read her mind, even God is probably clueless as to the mysterious functioning of a woman's complex mind. Stop trying to read her thoughts and look at her body instead. When I say body, I'm not referring to her breasts, but rather her flirtatious behavior and gestures, i.e. facial and posture patterns.

Unfortunately, men either choose to completely ignore a woman's body language, or are completely clueless as to how to interpret the signs. But remember this -- everything about socializing is based on the following two facts:

First, communication is 60% nonverbal. Second, nonverbal signs have five times more impact than verbal ones. So if you're not paying attention to her body language, you're missing out on 60% of the game. Then you wonder why you always go home alone at the end of the night.

Learn how to read her body language and be the one to take her home...

-from "askmen.com"

Hellznrg-

That’s generally very useful, however,

• You’re off topic.
  
• It would actually be helpful if you researched and included the specifics of women’s body language.
  
• You’re posting in the women’s forum again without invitation.

It’s not my intent to criticize, but I feel you will enjoy more success with women when you develop more respect for them, like respecting their space for example.

This would be an excellent new topic in the men’s forum.

I would be happy to move it, but I don’t appear to have mod privileges in the women’s forum.

Bopp?