"falling in love" with specific traits only

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Has anyone had an experience where they thought that they were in love with someone only to find that that person changes one thing about themselves and you no longer feel anything? If so, what was it that attracted you to them?
It makes me think that I must be unfeeling that I could be so fickle in trying to find a mate. I really want to believe that I genuinely understood something about them, and was attracted to that, but I haven't found it to be true.