Ladies what kind of relationship setup do u have and want?

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I have only ever had long distance relationships ( 2 years, 3 years ongoing)

Do you live with a man, do you enjoy it?

I hope things don't fall apart the minute we move in together in the future.

I wonder if I am better suited to a seperate but together arrangement.

i'm married and happy.

I am married.

My role in our relationship is a support role from my view: I keep our home tidy and organized, I prepare dinner most of the time (He doesn't have to chase down vegetables & fruit on a good day), I prevent him from falling into depression utilizing hands-on sex therapy (Well you understand what I mean and he has SAD so winter keeps me busy).

I provide him with all my affection and He returns it twice fold.

I enjoy living with my romana, I am quite content and he hardly has any bad habits: He wanders around our home nude , He delves into herbs and aromatherapy using a vaporizer which has interesting results when he happens to accidentally discover a sexual stimulant .

Hell's Bells, If we both have the day off, We'd rape one another all day!

I moved in with my partner 2 years ago. It helped us a lot to set up tables for everything (started with a- joking- bristol stool scale). It makes both of us more comfortable to be able to check the tables, when was last cleaned what in the house, did I take my pills today, etc. I regret I was offended first when he proposed the cleaning table (hate everything that smells like a restriction), it really helped.
BTW he is much more worried about tidiness than I am- the moment I make enough money for the both of us he'd gladly be the houseman.

Undecided, but I'm leaning away from a traditional marriage and children. Seriously considering deliberately remaining single so I have more energy to spare for the other areas in my life (which I place more importance on - not that I wouldn't like to be in a relationship, just that other things in life are more important to me). If I did get married then I would definitely still need lots of time to myself and my own rooms in the house, that sort of thing.

I lived with a guy for a while and I didn't really enjoy it much. He didn't want me to work but I did and he had trouble maintaining a job, he would stress over me paying for so much of our expenses and stuff.

I've lived with girlfriends in the past and it was honestly way more egalitarian and that's comfortable for me. I don't think I'm going to move in with my current girlfriend... ever probably. I like having my own house. My dog is pretty needy and takes up a lot of my time and I don't like it when people act like I shouldn't make my dog a top priority and take her with me to so many places, but she alerts me to my seizures before they happen so she's vital to my everyday life.

I have too much stuff going on to share a home with someone else right now.

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We were in a long-distance relationship for a few months, and then he moved to Michigan and now we're able to see each other every week.