I'd like to talk to others in an aspie/aspie long term relationship. I've tried various counselors and any professional resource I could find. What a joke, thanks for the bills. We are both high functioning, mid life and he has adhd. I'm not comfortable blabbing in front of men and i need a private place away from here since I've been encouraging him to start some reading here. I guess ultimately my problem is that where a pack of girlfriends steps in to give me advice and moral support and the emotional intimacy he lacks, I have no friends.