Abstinence for more then 5 months

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Sorry Girls I had to come in here for a third time

I was watching a day time TV programme that said to ladies that the best way find the right man is to obtain from sex until at least 5 month. I don’t really have to tell you of the benefits this brings to a relationship.

This approach has been so successful that the two most successful religions Muslim, and Christianity has adopted the idea as it make their society strong. The only difference is they believe in complete abstinence from sex until marriage.

I put this in the woman forum because it is very important for woman. Me talking about broken families and dating woman with children in the other forum brought topic this up. And me being 33 years old and with the odds are that I will end up with a woman with a child who was from a broken family; there are so many broken families.

I am yet to figure out wither as a man whether I should also impose such a rule when I find that special woman. But for a woman to find the special one, I think it is a must.

why should it make a difference? and do they mean intercourse with another human, or all sexual activity?

and to impose such a rule on women and yet not on men sounds sexist.

maybe they want women to abstain from sex so the women will get desperate and then lower their standards just to get laid. i see that happening alot.

Hm, it's interesting. I could see how it would help - it weeds out the guys who just want to get laid. But I don't think it would help to find the right guy - you still have to actually find him. It may be more of a test to make sure he is the right one.

And sun_rat, look at it this way: it affects men too, because (if they're remaining faithful) they can't have sex for five months too.

I find your post highly offensive, and it takes a whole lot to offend me.

Yeah I find it rather sexist and offensive, maybe us women should start expecting the same out of men in that case. The day a man does that to respect a woman and all would be amazing.

I personally don't find it offensive in the slightest, but then again sex is not a major factor in my life, so maybe that's why. Whatever.