Do you get jealous of other women sometimes?

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bleh12345
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30 Sep 2013, 5:18 am

Yes, I do. I often have fantasies of being that "sexy" woman that everyone stops and stares at. Then, I think, I can't have it that way. I don't think people would really be liking who I am if that were to happen. I'm fine with being the weird girl that some people find cute. I have had thoughts about cheating on my husband before, but then I thought, why? Just to be that girl? I think a lot of those girls end up lonely because people don't like who they are. :[



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30 Sep 2013, 5:21 am

Yes, I do. I often have fantasies of being that "sexy" woman that everyone stops and stares at. Then, I think, I can't have it that way. I don't think people would really be liking who I am if that were to happen. I'm fine with being the weird girl that some people find cute. I have had thoughts about cheating on my husband before, but then I thought, why? Just to be that girl? I think a lot of those girls end up lonely because people don't like who they are. :[



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03 Oct 2013, 2:54 pm

I've never been competitive, only a little bitter sometimes. I don't feel like it would even be worth it to compete.



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26 Oct 2013, 11:46 am

Ha. Jealous of what? something the other woman can't have? like they're anorexic or something and think its cool and im happily curvy and love to flatter my curves in the best possible way. Having said that, right, I don't like it when it's the other way around, its simply intolerable having someone envy you for your smile your looks social stamina or facial expression. Didn't they learn to grow up in school? I grew up with bullies everywhere, couldn't wait to get to college ad get them off my back to be honest.
I won't deny, I like the attention I receive from attractive gents. Certain language though will abhor me and I have to make an excuse and leave especially if their idea of having a good time is to go to a pub get you drunk and swagger off home with you and their pint in tow.
No no. I am not a dominant person but I don't get walked all over and if things aren't working I usually end it. I stand up for myself, especially against women who think that just because they see some bloke they think that they belong with them or something. (no respect for the woman who is being chaperoned by her man). If I see a couple who love each other I don't interfere at all.
Jealousy turns into hatred, that turns into blackmail and worse sometimes, so no, I never get involved with something outside of my realm.



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26 Oct 2013, 12:04 pm

I don't tend to get jealous.

But I had an eating disorder when I was young and some women actually resented me for being malnourished, they didn't even try to get to know me.


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26 Oct 2013, 2:38 pm

I get jealous of women who know how to be 'not weird'. Does that count?