Thanks everybody! Here is what we have so far, as a strong maybe.
For the programs, we will have some sort of montage of Dec 7th 1941 newspaper front pages scattered over each other. We don't know where on the program we want to use them, but we will decide.
We are going to use a line from "As Time Goes By" on the napkins. Cursive "The fundamental things apply, as time goes by......." Not only is that lovely, but it can be used on napkins, etc for anniversaries in the future, because it's appropriate.
The reception decorations will be as close to period authentic that I can find, which is good because they will be cheap and they are paying for this and she works at Wal Mart and he works in the mine. We are going "wartime rationing" with it. White tissue paper wedding bells, and tissue paper flowers in white and red. An archway inside the reception hall, decorated with bells and flowers. We are contemplating satin hearts and maybe rosey cheeked cherubs because it's in February, so we can use a Valentine look as well.
Her colors are red and black, and so her dress will be a vintage style that we buy at a thrift store, but I'm going to add red and black lace, ribbons, and beads. I don't know where that will be or how much because we haven't found the dress yet. We are going Sunday to look, and I'm going to look around the consignment shop here in town and also the church junk store. Both of them always have wedding dresses.
Her headpiece will be a small white or ivory triangle, worn slightly to the side and forward. I'm going to do the beadwork on that in red and have a small black net demi veil.
We have agreed definately on Revlon Red nails and lips for her and the bridesmails, but she's going to let each girl choose her own dress. I'm doing her hair in Victory Rolls with a black snood to match her veil, and I'll be happy to do the other girls hair if they want me to, however they want.
Because the WWII era brought out a lot of patriotism, we are going to have some bunting hanging in parts of the hall, and maybe a flag. I want to find a period accurate flag.
My daughter is making the cake, and they haven't even talked about it yet, but it's going to be white, red and black. I bet it will be beautiful!
This is going to be great. I love this kind of thing.
I'll keep everybody posted.
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