thank you... the replies were very helpful.. I am overlapping, tucking and pinning my fringe to the side now. but still i cant touch my head any more as even the tinier touch messes it up. also i have no hair to push behind my ears anymore which makes me feel wierd and naked. also i look like another person, which shocks me especially when i look into the mirror. hope i get used to it... or my hair grows out before that.... i just dont understand how other people with bangs seem to be so much at ease.