Has anyone on this forum been attracted to a guy with Aspergers? I am not usually not attracted to guys that have Aspergers although I have it as well. I was attracted to one my of ex friends who has Aspergers. He was someone that I talked to a lot. I ended up after a few months of liking him I told him how I felt about him. He ended playing with my emotions. At the time he was interested in another girl. He tried to kiss me and had one of his friends videotape him. He ended trying to get me in trouble for sexual harassment. He is immature thugh I have only met a few people with Aspergers. I was wondering if a lot of guys with Aspergers are immature.
I think maturity levels really vary with the person. There are a lot of autistic people and we're all different. Sorry about your experience that fellow. I wouldn't expect that that kind of behavior is more common among autistics than the general population though.
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25 Sep 2015, 3:43 pm
I usually find Aspie males to be more mature during social interactions, but they can be immature in other areas as well- depends on the person. It sounds to me like he was trying to fit in and "be cool" amongst his friends more than anything.