catlady2323 wrote:
I choose to become a recluse about 7 years ago, and have figured out a way to work from home. This enables me to wear a man's cotton (tagless) white undershirt instead of a bra, with a comfortable denim shirt over it when I am working at home. But of course I do have to go out in public regularly to grocery shop, and take care of other errands, which of course necessitates wearing the dreaded bra. I have found for me that I can only tolerate it about 2 - 3 hours before I must go home and remove it.
I don't wear a bra when I'm at home, either, which is usually most of the time, unless I'm at school. The minute I get home, it comes off.
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Is it just during the summer that you find wearing a bra uncomfortable?
I find it uncomfortable at other times, too, but moreso in the summer because it sticks to my skin. I find that incredibly irritating. Having my clothes stick to my skin, twisting and pulling on my skin nearly sends me into a rage.
The things that irritate me the most about bras are when the straps keep falling down, the band digs in after a while, or the hooks on the back sometimes dig into my skin. When I'm sitting for a long time, sometimes the underwire digs into my ribs, as well. And when the bra has a strip of fabric around the bottom of the cups that has a texture to it, that's even more irritating, because it digs in and starts to hurt after a while.
I have a sports bra, but it must be too small, because it keeps riding up, and I have to keep pulling it down. That's irritating as well.
I have decided to try a Hanes comfortflex bra and see how that goes. It doesn't have underwire, so I'm hoping it won't make my boobs look saggy.
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