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DevilKisses
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15 Jun 2016, 7:31 pm

I've been worried about my bone structure. I think my face is too squarish and childish at the same time.


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15 Jun 2016, 9:24 pm

I think you have a great bone structure...it looks great from any angle. Your eyes have a really nice shape too. I mean wow you are really beautiful! I hadn't seen a video of you before, just some photos and those didn't even do you justice.



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16 Jun 2016, 4:49 pm

honestly you're really pretty.



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16 Jun 2016, 5:56 pm

I don't think anybody who's being honest would ever says you have a "bad bone structure."

Only somebody who wants to pull your chain.



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17 Jun 2016, 6:19 pm

I think you are quite pretty.

Someone is either being a jerk, or dishing out their personal opinions of what constitutes female beauty as fact.

Actually, your facial structure looks a lot like mine, except that my jaw is square on one side and round on the other (something I inherited through my mother from her mother's mother; as such, I've rather come to like it).

Also, I don't have the patience or motivation to tweeze my brows so artistically.


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17 Jun 2016, 6:44 pm

BuyerBeware wrote:
I think you are quite pretty.

Someone is either being a jerk, or dishing out their personal opinions of what constitutes female beauty as fact.

Actually, your facial structure looks a lot like mine, except that my jaw is square on one side and round on the other (something I inherited through my mother from her mother's mother; as such, I've rather come to like it).

Also, I don't have the patience or motivation to tweeze my brows so artistically.

It's not that hard to tweeze my eyebrows like that. I pretty much just tweeze the bottom. The top of my eyebrows are actually shaped like that, I just had no idea until I tweeted them.


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18 Jun 2016, 12:38 pm

You are a cute young girl. Run with it while you can ^_^
Somebody has made you self concious.


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18 Jun 2016, 12:53 pm

gingerpickles wrote:
You are a cute young girl. Run with it while you can ^_^
Somebody has made you self concious.

I'm sick of looking "cute". I want my face to look more edgy and defined. I think my face is way too round.


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18 Jun 2016, 1:26 pm

What everyone else is saying: you look rather attractive.

Your wide face is balanced out by your somewhat prominent nose. So it evens out, and you look just right.


you're obviously using your face as a scapegoat for some issue in your life that has nothing to do with your cheekbones.



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18 Jun 2016, 1:34 pm

DevilKisses wrote:
gingerpickles wrote:
You are a cute young girl. Run with it while you can ^_^
Somebody has made you self concious.

I'm sick of looking "cute". I want my face to look more edgy and defined. I think my face is way too round.


Google Angelina Jolie as a teen/YA. Then try Tanita Tikarum. Tegan & Sara circa 2003-5. I think the next decade will pleasantly surprise you, based on your mix of heritage. As it is, your chin & nose & cheekbones already give your face nice definition w/ their angles.


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18 Jun 2016, 2:10 pm

Edenthiel wrote:
DevilKisses wrote:
gingerpickles wrote:
You are a cute young girl. Run with it while you can ^_^
Somebody has made you self concious.

I'm sick of looking "cute". I want my face to look more edgy and defined. I think my face is way too round.


Google Angelina Jolie as a teen/YA. Then try Tanita Tikarum. Tegan & Sara circa 2003-5. I think the next decade will pleasantly surprise you, based on your mix of heritage. As it is, your chin & nose & cheekbones already give your face nice definition w/ their angles.

Based on my mom's side of the family, my face will probably never look chiseled. My mom and aunt are around their fifties and they still have "baby fat." They also look their age. I don't remember too much about my dad's side of the family. Maybe there's some people on my dad's side of the family with better genetics.


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18 Jun 2016, 3:03 pm

Count your blessings. You're a pretty young lady.

You'd be the belle of the Optometrist Ball.



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18 Jun 2016, 5:04 pm

DevilKisses wrote:
Edenthiel wrote:
DevilKisses wrote:
gingerpickles wrote:
You are a cute young girl. Run with it while you can ^_^
Somebody has made you self concious.

I'm sick of looking "cute". I want my face to look more edgy and defined. I think my face is way too round.


Google Angelina Jolie as a teen/YA. Then try Tanita Tikarum. Tegan & Sara circa 2003-5. I think the next decade will pleasantly surprise you, based on your mix of heritage. As it is, your chin & nose & cheekbones already give your face nice definition w/ their angles.

Based on my mom's side of the family, my face will probably never look chiseled. My mom and aunt are around their fifties and they still have "baby fat." They also look their age. I don't remember too much about my dad's side of the family. Maybe there's some people on my dad's side of the family with better genetics.


Google them without makeup. The difference can be striking. Except T&S, who really do have extremely sharp, defined jawlines, to the point where makeup artists probably want to try to tone them down a little. Which brings up the inevitable question of who chooses "the" ideal look...and where misogyny and other artificial cultural influences fit into said selection (& how they change over time).

Please consider being proud of your face, much as you might want to fight it.


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18 Jun 2016, 5:17 pm

I don't think it's about misogyny. I know some creepy and misogynistic men find my face shape attractive. I really don't want to be attractive to those men. I'd rather have an edgy and more intimidating face. It fits more with the way I want to interact with the world and dress.


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18 Jun 2016, 7:42 pm

Your bone structure is amazing! No joke a chiseled bone structure is really attractive.

And I love your green hair. That other guy whi said it was childish can do one! May I ask if you had to lighten your hair first? I'm thinking about doing my hair a green blue or a purple.

Sometimes people pick out things about people apperancses just to be mean and because they are jealous. In no way do you look childish, if I saw you in the street I would say in your 20s



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18 Jun 2016, 9:42 pm

I hope you don't, because my jaw and cheeks are very similar. :p Somethimes I don't like how square I look from some angles. I've had moments of horror looking at pictures, but other times I think I look good. It's very confusing.

But I think you look perfectly fine. Not ugly or abnormal in any way.