I've seen about the first three to four seasons of it, give or take a few episodes. I didn't see much of Hank, so I'm not going to comment on him. As far as Max and all that goes, that actually is what helped me start asking my mom if I could be autistic. Max was the first character I saw on TV who had autism. As far as the camouflage thing, I read somewhere, I can't remember where, that part of the reason autism is more often caught in boys is that when the children are in elementary school, girls peers are much quicker to help their friends accommodate, where as boys are more likely to pick on peers who act different. So the girls blend in better, and find it easier to pass as neurotypical.