I love bobs. They're low maintenance, cute, and fun. I always cycle between a sort of mid-length bob and long hair. I tend to miss my short hair after a while. When I first get it cut, it is also super fun to play with, and it feels all healthy, and I love to shake my head around to get some movement. (Not in public though, haha, I know people would find that odd.)
As a bisexual woman, I also like short hair on women quite a lot. Though obviously that comes down to personal taste, and you should ultimately be doing things for your appearance that make you feel good.
(Actually, as a side note, my interest in having short hair myself does very much have to do with my Asperger's, because it's less effort, and nicer from a sensory perspective, because it doesn't hurt as much to brush and take care of, doesn't get as tangled and uncomfortable, doesn't get all over as much, and like I said... fun to play with. Would recommend.)
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