Sweetleaf wrote:
I can't say I never have, but I have certainly never liked it. So anymore I have made the choice not to, for the most part and I have to say I prefer it. Also the hair on my legs is only visible below the knee all the hair above that is too short and light colored to see...but around my calves its a bit more dark and more visible but yeah I don't care anymore. I know I shaved my armpits a few months ago when I was looking for work...not sure why really guess i was just trying to make that first impression, but my boyfriend seemed to think it quite weird since that's the only time he saw me with them shaved. lol he says he likes my arm-pits for some reason and I don't shave them usually, but then I did shave them and it seemed off-putting for him...like he didn't say that but just the way he reacted I think he actually likes them better when they have hair.
But yeah I say to each their own if a woman or man prefers to shave body hair...cool, but I think it should certainly be a personal choice. In the past I have done it because I was told that is just what you do if you're female...but I came to realize I don't like it so why should I. So not dissing on people who like to shave it's your preference, I just hate the pressure that you 'have' to shave if you are female, or that only shaved females can be attractive.
I will add though I do wash it, like for anyone who would say 'thats not hygienic' I do make a point to wash everything in the shower, so it is kind of a myth that if you keep body hair you're gross...I mean if that were true all the hairy guys who shower every day wouldn't be clean ever.
Not unless I think it's going to be exposed in some way, but for the most part, I don't shave because I have very little body hair and rarely wear anything that would expose the places I do have body hair.
I will say, on the subject of shaving and social norms, men tend to hate shaving their faces. I had a co-worker who was in the military, who had particularly fast growing, thick facial hair, and had to shave twice per day to meet military standards.