am I in love?

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I thought I was interested in a guy. I searched for information about him.
Today I saw him on facebook and saw his pics. I cried, I did not know why. I felt uncomfortable, and actually I disliked all of those pictures. But at the same time, I still want to see him and talk to him. also, when I saw him with other girls, I felt a bit jealous. I feel very puzzled about myself. Am I in love with this guy? Or am I having an obsession? Or are we just friends and that feelings come from pure friendship. Do you know what I should do to stop this situation? How to tell if I am in love with a guy, and a guy in love with me? Thanks.

Sorry to intrude, talk to the guy. See what he has to say. Doesent hurt.

Love takes time and effort, there is no such thing as 'love at first sight'. You may have a crush, which can build into love. Talk to him, find out if you're compadible ^^

Sounds more like an obsession than love, to be honest. Best be real with yourself about it. The thing witht eh photos is probably deu to you unconsciously disliking not having access to him or not being able to talk and interact with him comfortably. That has happens to me a lot. That inaccessability, either due to circunstancees or my social awkwardness, tends to tranform my infatuations into obsessions.

I too suggest getting to know him better, if you can. The best way to "test" your feeling is by getting to know a guy better. There's an old saying: The two best ways to get over a guy is 1) end all contact with him, or 2) (the faster way) get to know him better. LOL. If the "obsession" stands up to getting to know him, then maybe your feelings run more deeply than just an infatuation.