Tricky Relationship Situation

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Have you ever been in limbo between two relationships? For example between an old one that is like a good friendship but is not what you really want, and a new one that seems too good to be true? What if you had to move far away in order to give the new one a try? Would you take that risk or stick with what you know? Or do something else?

That sounds like a tough call. For me, it would depend upon a lot of things. Why don't you make a pros and cons list? That's how I make tough decisions. I once had to choose between three states to relocate to, in a job related situation. So I listed all the good things about a place, on one side and all the unknown or bad things on the other. You could do this about the two people and situations in question.

No, usually one relationship ends and I take time to collect my thoughts and find myself before getting into another. It doesn't sound like you're being fair to either one of them.

Good points. Good ideas.