dosh wrote:
...Needless to say, this person ceased to want to have anything to do with me! ...
To me, it doesn't seem like it should be a foregone conclusion.
In the first instance, it seems like the guy just doesn't have a sense of humor. What you said was clearly a joke - even if he didn't find it particularly funny, I'd be suspicious of someone who didn't at least appreciate that your comment was made in jest.
In the second instance - again, it seems a sensible person who wanted to get to know you better would just say "fair enough" & you'd share a drink or two together.
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