How do you deal with pigs?

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Thank goodness I don't run into them often anymore.

I used to run into men all the time who ask for naked pictures or ask me to do sexual things, or ask me to cyber.

I hate the ones who try and push it so I take them off my friend's list and then block them.
I was talking to one two nights ago and he tried to get me to have sex with him, for real, not online, and tried to get me to bring my boyfriend. So I took him off my friend's list. I couldn't block him because YIM doesn't allow you to block people who are on your buddy list. I couldn't be arsed to type his name down and then type it in again to add to my ignore list so I decided I'll block him when he IMs me again. But what if he apologized? He better not do it again, ever or else his apology was a phony.

One of my online friends told me I should send them to him so he can deal with them. I told him he should say he is a girl and he said he would mess with their heads.

Any women here mess with them, like pretend you are going to meet them but instead you stood them up and watch them chew you out online because they didn't get what they wanted. When they ask for a naked picture, do you tell them to go to a porn site?
If they keep pushing it, do you tell them to go find another woman?


I think I got rid of lot of them because I used to leave in my AIM profile if you are going to be asking for naked pictures or asking me to do sexual things, I will not do it. Don't even ask me to get my dad's camera and to take pictures of my naked self because it pisses me off and I am a mean person.

Yes I even said I was a mean person because some punk from Australia said he loved me and he wants to see me naked because it turns him on and when I refused, he said I was mean and I blocked him. So I was stooping down their level by saying I was mean so they wouldn't IM me. Also I stopped posting my screen names in my profile on diaper sites I went to. Many men with that fetish find women and have no respect for them so it's hard to find women with that fetish to talk to if you are a guy because lot of them hide by not posting in the community. But the ones who do, they ignore messages from men or they pretend to be a guy.

Oh, I thought this post was going to be about cops. (Police, coppers, bobbies, ect, whatever you want to call them.)
On to the real subject.
I work with pigs. Just today one guy told me he'd pay me $20 to french kiss our other coworker. Um, no way. But it's like that all the time, I'm used to it. I can throw it back at them, and usually do, often twisting it badly enough to make them not want to play anymore.
I've hung around way too many perverts in my life to be bothered by stuff like that.

From a man's POV, and that of a supervisor:

I usually counsel the guys first on what constitutes harassment in the workplace, but some just don't seem to get it. They're the ones who usually end up getting fired for coming on to one of the line workers or secretaries, for staring, or for simply being jerks.

Like I said, they just don't seem to get the idea that such behavior is not wanted, and that it is totally inappropriate in the workplace.

There is a time and a place for piglish behavior, and it's usually at a strip bar or "Gentlemen's Club."

I usually ignore them, but I will stand up for myself if the situation calls for it. I think it's in everyone's best interest - maybe the guy needs to be taught a lesson in the direct "tough love" kind of way.

When I was 17, I met a man on AIM who said he was 35(ish) and married. I told him I was 17 years old and a virgin. He recommended that he and his 30-something-year-old wife solve my "virginity problem" for me. He told me when and where to meet him (a coffee shop next to my school). I acted like I was going to go, then stood them / him up, and blocked him online.

Recently (12 years later), I was in a bar when a guy I knew initiated a conversation by begging for sex. I said, "No, I'm here to see my friends' band play." Then he started shoving me around a bit - not enough to hurt but still inappropriate. So I gave him one good shove which sent him straight across the room and into the juke box. After he came to his senses, he congratulated me on my strength and offered to buy me a drink. I said, "Uh, I'm going to go stand over there now," and went and watched the band.

Q.How do you deal with pigs?

A: one word : BACON!

I've dealt with pigs before. Not the sexual kind. Just the buttmunch kind. They want to meet up? Sure, I'll give you my address. And I gave my ex girlfriends address.


Just kidding. Don't do that. Not cool. Although on Facebook one time this girl invited me to her "I lost my phone" group, and I gave her my ex girlfriends number and said to call me LOL.

But seriously, just ignore the pigs. Pigs say "boink". That's all pigs can say. You are a human, and you have a life, and you don't say boink. If that were me, sure I'd get on cam for him, and give him two middle fingers. Actually I wouldn't do that, but it's fun to say.

People lose 80% of their intelligence when they get on the computer. Since computers are anoynomous, or at least not face to face, people act a lot tougher than usual. So that's why men act like pigs on the Internet, because there are no ramifications, and there is the off chance that he might get some. I believe the pig mentality is "Failing 99 times out of 100 is a great success" or something like that. Or maybe pigs get slaughtered for a reason.

I make sure to mention my other half within at least the first 3 minutes of a conversation, on or offline. If someone gives me a creepy feeling I find a way to stick him in a sentence within the first 15 seconds.

Even if you don't have an significant other (though I believe you do) this can still work if you're willing to tell a little lie. A lot of guys are okay with being a jerk to a girl but if they know that there might be a guy bigger and badder than him that will defend her, he will think twice.

How to deal with pigs? Just quote the immortal words of Porky Pig: "PIDEE-PIDEE-PIDEE-PIDEE-PIDEE-PISS OFF!"

When I had AIM, I actually had it set up where only someone on my "buddy list" could IM me, and listed in my profile that I was in a committed relationship even when I was really single. That was done to deter as many pigs as possible. Before they had the feature where you could allow only your "buddies" to send you messages, I declined IM's from those who wanted pictures or to meet. Even with the "buddy list" feature, there were still those who tried to IM me, but were quickly declined if they weren't on that list. If they continued, I blocked them completely.

Eventually, I got rid of the instant message thing because I got sick of it.

I always have a picture of me and my best friend (who is a guy) ready and if they ask me I put the picture up and say this is my boyfriend. my friend knows i have done it. also i once had a guy who i had been talking to for a while and we were chatting on webcam and e sed he wanted to o stuff but my friend was sitting next to me so he took control of the conversation haha

the fake boyfriend normally works or blocking them