Non-touchers and relationships?

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I hate being touched to some extent.
I like to be warned. I ususally have to stop myself from getting mad if someone hugs or touches me unexpectly.
I usually growl or get mad to give them a warning. In a relationship b/f- g/f I don't mind.

Gods; I hate being touched so much!
It's hard to explain to most people, though. We're in a very "touch-centric" culture.
One of the guys at work slaps me on the shoulder, in a friendly way when he says hello, of course. It's really uncomfortable, but people don't seem to be able to understand why. But, that's just in terms of friendships. Hand-shaking and whatnot.
As for romantic relationships, well, that is even more uncomfortable. I mean, you want to have certain contacts. But, for the most part, it's unpleasant. Because I can't stand touching; most women think I'm a cold hearted bastard!
Probably true there...