alex wrote:
i've started pronouncing it as 'au-spur-jurs'
That sounds good to me, too. Distancing it from the "burgers" mishearing seems like it would help people take it more seriously as a concept, and as a viable way of being. I've known one person who flat-out told my wife that he thought I could overcome it if I wanted to, probably meaning that he thought I was being lazy. To her credit, she didn't listen to him. I got that same foolishness from the military when I was in uniform, too. I don't know about them now, but back then, fifteen years or so ago, before Aspegers became a recognized syndrome in American psychiatric practice, the American uniformed services believed that everyone could "communicate" with everyone else. If communication wasn't happening, then their usual viewpoint was that someone was being deliberately negligent and deserved to be treated like a minor criminal until he changed his ways. I much prefer a more current viewpoint, which says that it's not only a real difference, but that it can be useful in its own right. Anything that reduces the amount of ridicule that people with AS run into, just for being different, is a
good thing.
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