ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
I wonder if they like being ridden by people? It seems so uncomfortable having to walk around with a human on your back. Sometimes run with a human on your back. I don't even want to know what that would feel like! Ouch.
Mr Whiskey is pretty.
Some
really like to be ridden and some
really resent it; and every opinion in between.
Every horse rider pair is a partnership. Just because they get along with, and like to be ridden by person A. doesn't mean they will like person B. The trick is when you are teaching them all about this people/riding thing, is to try to keep it fun. It's a game, while they are learning. Also, they need to learn to trust you; and that is where you have to earn 'your keep' so speak with
them.
Some horses trust most people and don't care who is up there (or have been beat down to the point that they know that making a fuss is more trouble than it is worth. That happens a lot too.) Some will only take one person. That is who they trust. Period.
It's very complicated and every horse is different. Every dynamic when you put in a person is different.
Every day I learn something new about the potential nuances of those interactions; that person/horse dynamic and synergy.
It's possible to learn how to ride in such a way so as not to sore your horse. For me, a gallop is actually alot smoother going, (easier to sit) than a trot.
The horse that came with Mr. Whiskey (Thank you for the compliment by the way. He is a pretty boy. I need to find a summer pic.
), liked to go, go, go. His favorite speed was hell-bent-for-leather.
He was fun.
But he was a
big horse that liked to boogy, and that scared most people. He was also a horse who needed someone confident, or he was such a big chicken you couldn't get him out the gate.
I was scared at first with him too. But I stayed up there anyway, and we figured each other out. After a few weeks, if any one else got up there he would spin in little circles, and rear, and generally just pitch a fit. So then we had to work on that.
Every horse is different. That particular horse taught me
alot. I can't even begin to convey how faceted it is.
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