Exile wrote:
Is it a problem for some others? and why is that?
Depends on what I'm doing. I love sensations on my body. If I'm running and working out, I hate tight clothes. I don't like the tight Under Armors and bike pants, for example. But I like close-fitting clothes (there is a difference). You have to wear tight underlayers in the Winter, so I can tolerate it, but it's not enjoyable.
I wear jeans, etc. I like close-fitting clothes most of the time. If I wear baggy clothes, I feel that I don't have enough focus to keep track of how everything is laying, so I tend to sit on wrinkles and look like a slob. Close fitting clothes keep themselves arranged.
Exile wrote:
And curious also about being held tightly or loosely?
Depends on the guy. Being held tightly by a spindly guy is more of a clutch than a hug.
I guess I don't get into extended hugs. I'm not really an affectionate woman in that sense (although I'm learning to be more so now that I have a dog). If it's just laying around on the couch or something, I guess a loose arm around me would make me feel less uncomfortable than it someone was gripping me.