Low confidence equals being overlooked...

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Ah. I see. I guess I shall henceforth be known as "what's his name".

You're very critisizing, maybe supporting or relating to my thread would be helpful, I gave you a compliment and you just crtisized that, please don't comment again please if you have nothing to say of importance on this thread, thanks

You just called me "what's his name". As you think so little of me, except when you think negatively of me, I shall delete my posts and never talk to you again. I hope that makes you feel better.

Yours truly,
"What's his name"

I didn't want to offend you but you seem to take things the wrong way, I forget things easily so I couldn't remember your name, I'm glad about what you said and I always like to hear other peoples opinions but try not to see little things as negative, it wasn't that I don't think you're important, but I didn't think you were contributing to the thread, instead I saw you as being critisizing which is what my sister does all the time.

Sorry

It's not easy. The only advice I can give is stay true to who you are, do what you want to do and don't let other people get on your nerves and stop you.

Confidence has nothing to do with being popular or liked. Popular people tend to be more outgoing, but can be just as insecure as anyone else. And you like who you like - it's chemistry. If anything, it's the other way around. When you're with people who like you, your confidence goes up. Also, your confidence goes up when you accomplish something that means something to you personally. A lot of people do this through sports or physical fitness. I wrote a book, which helped me a lot. (No sale yet, though.)

I think the secret is to follow your values, and you're more likely to connect with people you get along well with. I'm still working on that one, though, so don't take my word for it. Autistic people may need to do more than just follow our values.