Greentea wrote:
I used to believe that when someone said something, it was always their true belief/opinion/feeling/thought except in very rare occasions.
Oh, wow, that one!
You know, I could make a list like some of the others here, but this is the one thing that has caused the most damage (by far).
Sometimes, people don't say things because
they believe those things, but because of what I will do if
I believe those things.
I was completely unaware of how intentionally conniving some people can be.
I thought that a vast majority of people would not do such a thing. And I believed that I'd be able to spot those who would.
I was wrong. Very wrong, indeed.
This is particularly poignant given the fact that the friend I'd trusted more than anyone else I ever knew to that time turned on me four years ago today ... it was in my search for understanding of her betrayal that I finally learned how naive I was, in just these terms. Brilliantly said.