Seanmw wrote:
in my experience, it's not strictly about looks. don't have to be a supermodel. not to say looks don't matter though, physical attraction plays a strong role in interest. but personality can be almost equally attractive. so it's about 50/50 with looks being a good way to draw initial attention and get your foot in the door thus giving you a better chance to gt him to pay attention to the nicer aspects of your personality and what a nice interesting person you are. make sense
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he takes the bait, then you set the hook. sorta like fishing in an oddly funny, yet vaguely morbid way.
as i started reading your post, i was thinking about something my friend said yesterday. "beauty is what catches the eye and makes inital connection, but without wit, intelligence and charm, nothing can last." funny thing is i also came across initial attention, which is what you said. similar to what my friend said, which was intial connection.