kfa91 wrote:
I've been here for less than a week and looking around the forum it seems like many people are self diagnosed. They hear about aspergers and think they have it because they are kind of shy and have a hobby they are obsessed with. They take the online test and tell themselves that all their inabilities in life are from aspergers. Self diagnosed should just be undiagnosed. Aspergers is such a complicated disorder that only a doctor can tell you if you have it or not.
In the end-state of things it does not matter, and even an official diagnoses is not the final authority.
It is what you make OUT of it, undiagnosed, self-diagnosed, diagnosed, or Nuerotypical.... this does not matter. We have come here to learn-and learn is what we shall do.
You are able to point out all of the problems in the world... but this is moot. Instead search for the solutions.
It is not just because I am 'kind of shy'.
It was to my detriment in high school. The few people that did know me thought I was an alien (hilarious now, confusing then). I do not appear in my highschool yearbook anywhere.
I was a ghost then, untouchable and translucent.
A little more corporeal now.
Dig? Good, here is the shovel.