sleep disorders
I am curious about other's experiences with sleep disruptions. I have had trouble falling asleep since I was a little kid, often lying awake until 2 or 3 am. For many years I had night shifts because I couldn't sleep. Sometimes I would be super tired and sleep for 20 minutes. I still have occasional trouble but here's something that often helps. I guess you would call it a ritual.
1. turn on a movie I've seen dozens of times. Slingblade, Coal Miner's Daughter, 1984, and Cider House Rules work best. I turn the sound down low so it's a murmer.
2. turn on a fan for the white noise.
3. two tylenol pms and sometimes a melatonin if that doesn't do the trick.
I need the white noise because every little sound bugs. Even a watch ticking across the room. If the tv is on to a movie I haven't seen before, or something informative like Animal Planet, it's too stimulating.
I would appreciate any tips from others for the nights where my ritual doesn't work.
I can't really sleep at night but I take tons of micro-naps. I'm more like a cat than a human in that respect. It probably killed my brain development as a child, but whatever.
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"If you look deeply emough into any person's soul, you can see the emu within them struggling to get out. Actually, most people don't have emus in their soul. Just me." - Invisible Dave, Lady of Emus
I've never been able to just lie down, relax, close my eyes and fall asleep, unless I have been very active during the day. And even then it's only slightly more likely that I'll be able to.
My falling asleep these days usually ends up happening somewhere between 5am and 9am, and usually after much waiting. But my amount of sleep is fairly normal, so often I end up waking up between 1pm and 5pm. And no matter how much I try to adjust to a normal rhythm, I always end up slipping back into this pattern within a day or two. It's like my body considers 7am to be more or less the approximate default bedtime. And I have no idea why. I've heard of Delayed Sleep-Phase Syndrome, and I guess that might be it, but I'm not sure there's a generally accepted cause of it.
I don't sleep well. Until I started taking melatonin every night it could easily take me up to 3 house after laying down just to fall a sleep, and then I would still wake up every 20 min or so for the next several hours. I use to always need noise or a tv flicker to sleep through the night, and now I'm having "seizure like" problems but wake up less frequently. Sometimes I wake up dazed and have trouble speaking or I wake up confused not knowing what day it is or with the strong feeling that I need to do something or that I forgot something (this is the worst, because it completely startles the hell out of me, and leaves me in almost a panic).
I don't really know what is going wrong with my brain at night, but I now have several doctors appointments to hopefully find out.
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My falling asleep these days usually ends up happening somewhere between 5am and 9am, and usually after much waiting. But my amount of sleep is fairly normal, so often I end up waking up between 1pm and 5pm. And no matter how much I try to adjust to a normal rhythm, I always end up slipping back into this pattern within a day or two. It's like my body considers 7am to be more or less the approximate default bedtime. And I have no idea why. I've heard of Delayed Sleep-Phase Syndrome, and I guess that might be it, but I'm not sure there's a generally accepted cause of it.
Good news is that you could easily adjust to working 3rd shift...
I sometimes fall into this pattern if I don't tell myself to go to bed at a reasonable hour (anything before 2am)...
I have to be very active in the day or else read a book before I go to bed to tire my brain out.
I also need a fan to be able to sleep fairly easy. Otherwise I've noticed my girlfriend's breathing also sort of works, but not as well. lol
My falling asleep these days usually ends up happening somewhere between 5am and 9am, and usually after much waiting. But my amount of sleep is fairly normal, so often I end up waking up between 1pm and 5pm. And no matter how much I try to adjust to a normal rhythm, I always end up slipping back into this pattern within a day or two. It's like my body considers 7am to be more or less the approximate default bedtime. And I have no idea why. I've heard of Delayed Sleep-Phase Syndrome, and I guess that might be it, but I'm not sure there's a generally accepted cause of it.
Good news is that you could easily adjust to working 3rd shift...
I sometimes fall into this pattern if I don't tell myself to go to bed at a reasonable hour (anything before 2am)...
I have to be very active in the day or else read a book before I go to bed to tire my brain out.
I also need a fan to be able to sleep fairly easy. Otherwise I've noticed my girlfriend's breathing also sort of works, but not as well. lol
I was like this before I had kids. I still find my body protesting my getting up about 8 every morning. I don't think I'll ever be used to it. I know I wasn't when I was in school.
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My falling asleep these days usually ends up happening somewhere between 5am and 9am, and usually after much waiting. But my amount of sleep is fairly normal, so often I end up waking up between 1pm and 5pm. And no matter how much I try to adjust to a normal rhythm, I always end up slipping back into this pattern within a day or two. It's like my body considers 7am to be more or less the approximate default bedtime. And I have no idea why. I've heard of Delayed Sleep-Phase Syndrome, and I guess that might be it, but I'm not sure there's a generally accepted cause of it.
Good news is that you could easily adjust to working 3rd shift...
I sometimes fall into this pattern if I don't tell myself to go to bed at a reasonable hour (anything before 2am)...
I have to be very active in the day or else read a book before I go to bed to tire my brain out.
I also need a fan to be able to sleep fairly easy. Otherwise I've noticed my girlfriend's breathing also sort of works, but not as well. lol
I was like this before I had kids. I still find my body protesting my getting up about 8 every morning. I don't think I'll ever be used to it. I know I wasn't when I was in school.
My girlfriend also got me into the habit of leaving a night-light/tv something on with light, at least to fall asleep to. For this my computer has a plexiglass window and it has blue lighting inside of it, so I just use a "shutdown -s -t 1800" to shut my computer down in 30 minutes so that I can fall asleep with the light as a "night light" lol
When my husband and I first met, he had his computer in his bedroom. He could sleep with the lights and humming from the modem. I couldn't. When we moved into our own place together, I told him computers didn't belong in the bedroom.
Now he complains about the tiny light from the baby monitor. *sigh*
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Still looking for that blue jean baby queen, prettiest girl I've ever seen.
Now he complains about the tiny light from the baby monitor. *sigh*
I couldn't sleep with the baby monitor light, or the lights blinking from the modem. I can barely sleep with the light from the alarm clock yet I know I need one to know what time it is lol
I think it's because the light from my computer is a dark blue...
I suffer insomnia from time to time. There are periods where it is more common.
I think when i have to deal with emotions battering at my defenses that I most suffer from it.
It's also when my brain is very active trying to figure something out. Usually resolving conflicting thoughts.
Right now, actually it's emotional conflict and turmoil that has been keeping me from being able to sleep at night.
I've been trying to break down the block I have on emotions, that keep me from physically feeling them the same way that most people do. I don't know why I don't learn... last several times I've tried doing this, it's always ended up the same way. I created a block on emotions for a reason... so that I could function and cope.... why would I bring it down?
Anyways, suggestions that can help...
1) get back up out of bed, don't just lie there, go blog on WP, go for a walk, exercise, have a shower, just DO something.. Then go back to bed. You'll be more tired tomorrow night, and maybe it'll be easier to sleep then.
2) Weed in small doses can relax the anxiety and let you drift off. Valium can also work if you have issues with illegal substances.
I've heard that meditation can also help. You can also buy white-noise generators (or download them for your computer) They give you a much better rendition of white noise, and it might work better than the fan
2) Weed in small doses can relax the anxiety and let you drift off. Valium can also work if you have issues with illegal substances.
I really can't do either of these. Any kind of mood altering chemical sends me careening and crashing. My behavior is super-erratic. Anytime they give me pain killers or some kind of sedative, I do something that gets me in trouble. ANYTIME. It took me weeks to shake anasthesia from surgery....
thanks for the other suggestions, though.
every night, i fall asleep with either the TV on or music playing through a stereo.
puts me right out.
sometimes i fall asleep with the light on, or the volume at a ridiculously high level.
the computer stays on at all times, i never bother to shut it off lol.
another thing i've noticed, the higher the amount of noise i can fall asleep to, the sounder, deeper, and longer my sleep is.
i do this with the TV, but i have to remember to set the Sleep function for a few hours, because the salesmen on infomercials tend to shout things very loudly.
there's nothing more annoying than being spooked awake at 3am by some dude yelling his head off about how great his new vacuum cleaner is.
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For months on end, I've been wondering why I kept on waking up, in the night. I've put 1 and 1 together, and realized that I've been drinking too much before bed, and I've been waking up, to use the washroom, 2 hours before my alarm went off. I've had my last Crystal Light, 2 and a half hours ago. I'm going to see, if this helps. I really hope that it does. Speaking of alarms, I'd better set my alarm, for tomorrow.
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