How many of you cannot get a driver's license?

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16 Aug 2010, 2:17 pm

Keith wrote:
I've noticed the people replying in this thread are those that do not. Some people can drive, others can not.

Some think they can drive, but they haven't a clue.

I am one of those that can and recently went for the extended test and passed that first time


and don't you look smug about it!



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16 Aug 2010, 2:20 pm

It can be much harder for people with AS to learn to drive, although I believe much of this is down to motivation. Its all down to the individual. If there are no medical restrictions preventing you driving (in the UK this is controlled by the DVLA) then go for it. It can take longer to learn than the average of around 45 hours of professional tuition most pupils in the UK take to reach test standard, though, for instance if there are co-ordination or anxiety issues to address.

I've been driving for over 30 years, and am currently in the final stages of qualifying to be a DSA Approved Driving Instructor. I'm doing additional training after I qualify to help with teaching pupils with AS, ADHD, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia and Anxiety.

I'll be one of only three AS driving instructors in the UK.

It can be done!



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16 Aug 2010, 3:42 pm

It's not that I can't have a license. It's that I choose not, to have a license.


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16 Aug 2010, 4:01 pm

I'm fully lisenced but my mom always complains that I drive too erratically but its not considered erratic for everyone. Stuff she complains about are like "jerky" lane changes (not that jerky at all. You can't even feel the car sway from side to side nor do the tires screech). Another one is following the car in front too closely but then again, some people have worst tail-gating habits than I do.



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16 Aug 2010, 5:29 pm

I took the test 5x and failed 5x. So I gave up.

Really I NEED my license though, in order to get a job. I fear going back to the US. Like really really fear it.



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16 Aug 2010, 5:50 pm

ToughDiamond wrote:
I can drive, and have a license, though what the insurance people would want to charge an Aspie is another matter (any Aspies here insured to drive in the UK?).


They don't even ask. So you would pay the same as anyone else of equal age, experience etc.

I didn't learn to drive until I was 28. It was one of the best things I ever did. The hardest parts were the first lesson, where I was so anxious about the unknown that I cried, and the test, where again I was so anxious that I messed it up several times. The examiner on my third go even suggested I try taking tranquilisers before my test. :D

I passed when I had an examiner who allowed for my extreme anxiety. He would stop me part way through a manover and remind me to breath and then forget about the test on think about what my instructor would tell me to do,



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16 Aug 2010, 6:01 pm

I failed my driving course at 16, which surprised those around me but me not a bit. I loathed driving, and luckily moved into a city with excellent public transportation. I got my license at 25, but didn't start driving with any regularity until I moved into rural and suburban areas closer to age 30.

These days I'm okay with local driving, getting kids to and from school and the like, but I am looking for work and out of necessity have had to apply for positions that would require a long expressway commute. Do.not.want., but student loans don't pay themselves.



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16 Aug 2010, 11:31 pm

I got my license at 18 , to where most kids had theirs at 16 ; before this all you'd hear is, "I can't wait till" .......
I was motivated only by the simple fact that it was a 'necessity' as time was running out; it's sink or swim baby.

I failed "parallel park" due to anxiety , but the instructor passed me on this first attempt.



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16 Aug 2010, 11:38 pm

DoP cannot drive a car for the same reasons already posted on WP four or five times.


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19 Aug 2010, 7:39 am

MotherKnowsBest wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
I can drive, and have a license, though what the insurance people would want to charge an Aspie is another matter (any Aspies here insured to drive in the UK?).

They don't even ask. So you would pay the same as anyone else of equal age, experience etc.

Thanks......I'd always expected they'd be onto disabilities like a shot. I know you're supposed to tell DVLC, but that it's not a bar to driving as such.