earthmom wrote:
I like all of these.
I've learned that the best response to "How is it that you remember that?"
is
"How is it that you don't?"
If I'm not overloaded or on the spot or freaking out, that is to say if I'm centered at the time, I try to just flip those things so the attention to my weirdness goes away.
"How can you think of all of those?"
"How can you not?"
oh so true. Someone once told me that I might have an easier time of things if I thought less about things, I replied that (no offence) I was constantly amazed that people who thought less than me were capable of speech
my analogy, which I've used to explain it to a good friend of mine when she asked what it was like to be an aspie (and which will hopefully be reused when I explain it to my girlfriend):
"The thing about all those white flowers you see is that they're only white in the area of the light spectrum that humans can see, in the ultraviolet area of the spectrum, they're bursting with colours, signals for the benefit of pollinating insects... Well, I don't actually know how my experience differs from yours, but I imagine being like you is like seeing ultraviolet, socially, all those flowers that look white are actually patterned so beautifully."
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