Callista wrote:
How about, "I don't fit the autism stereotype"?
Because, you know, most people with classic autism don't, either. 80-90% are speaking by the time they're nine years old. Many will get married, support themselves, raise kids... you know, like NTs do. And many Aspies won't. In adulthood, classic autistics who have gained speech and basic self-care skills cannot be distinguished from Aspies.
Instead of running away from the term "autism" because it comes with an incorrect stereotype, why not just correct the stereotype? I'd rather just explain, "Actually, most autism isn't severe or extremely obvious."
My thoughts exactly, but expressed with a clarity that I can only dream of.