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14 Oct 2006, 10:09 pm

My answer to the question "Why do we hate NTs" runs something like "I don't know, why do you? I sure don't."

Nor am I particularly envious of the lives that most people lead.


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15 Oct 2006, 12:35 am

Too right, instead of hating a particular type of people, how bout hating the ignorance thats spread rampant throughout mankind, that gives you a cause to fight, and you can therefore love your enemies!


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15 Oct 2006, 12:45 am

There are also a lot of NT's that actually care for and value people on the spectrum. Some of the most talented and creative people I've met have AS and I enjoy their company.

I think its really sad that many of you have had such awful experiences. Not all NTS are that way and remember not everyone is so called normal either. Someone said Hilter was an NT but I think he was a madman ... you just can't throw everyone in the same box......

Often the most obnoxious people are the ones with the most issues diagnosis or not. I carry the Fragile X Syndrome and have many issues I've had to overcome through the years, and you should see what I have had to put up from society with especially having three disabled children. But you know I just don't bother with people who try to pull me down I just go for it in life anyway. I guess all I'm saying is we ALL each one have our own battles to fight I just wish we could work together

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15 Oct 2006, 12:58 am

I only hate curebies, and others who would do us harm.


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15 Oct 2006, 11:14 pm

What the hell is an NT and what the hell is an aspie we'er all just people at the end of the day most every person on the planet is f***ed up to some extent and in some way this whole aspie NT thing is just another "us and them" thing any-way and the world needs less of that. If you want to hate someone for treating you like durt then hate them but don't lump every one who's differant from you into one big faceless enemy couse where's that gona get you.



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15 Oct 2006, 11:44 pm

I love it, here on WP we have quite the open minded attitude developing as a whole :)


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16 Oct 2006, 12:28 am

While simple dislike is automatic, I realize that there are levels of dislike. The extreme level is 'Hate'. And Hate is an option.

I'll be the first to admit that I was an elitist. My thoughts centered around ... sending all NT's to the incinerators ... but after a while I grew more mature and saw that Hate, is ultimately destructive to one's own personality.

Am I fond of NT's in general, now? No.

Do I hate them? I try not to. It is hard to not choose the option of 'Hate'... but it is possible to avoid it.

That is what everyone might need to do now. Avoid hating NT's. Because UNFORTUNATELY, in many cases, we are at their mercy.



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16 Oct 2006, 12:38 pm

It's nothing personal; it's just that NTs can be real PITAs.



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16 Oct 2006, 1:16 pm

They are driven by social standing, they're not bothered by lighting, they can multi task, they cabe cruel.



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16 Oct 2006, 1:58 pm

My views on Aspies and Non-Aspies are extremely strong. Prepare yourselves.

I throw all people into one of three categories. The first is Aspies, which I refer to as "The Ultimate Empire" a lot of the time. The second is Conformists, which are basically all non-Aspies that exist. The third one is an exception to the second one, they Greys, which are non-Aspies that are open-minded enough to simulate co-existion with Aspies.

In my opinion-- and this is ONLY my own opinion-- Aspies and Conformists do not, CAN not, and SHOULD not co-exist with one-another in society. We are self-chosen Outcasts (capitalized), our own culture and empire, and do not need to rely on the scum we live among to be successful in life. I would never respect a Conformist the slightest bit... No. Matter. What.

And my past wasn't even that abused, either! I had only a moderate amount of bullying in Elementary, until I learned how to defend myself-- with words, which are now my weapons-- but I turned out to be quite hard-hearted towards society. Maybe I feel the way I do because not everyone who faces my challenges can help themselves as well as I have, and many of us are at the full mercy of Conformists and don't even realize it. When my Kin are in danger, I lose it. That's gotta be it.

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16 Oct 2006, 4:25 pm

Well, I WAS abused at the hands of NewTs when I was a lad. But I don't hate them. I tolerate them, and sometimes feel sorry for them. I told my wife once that I simply can't imagine ever EVER being interested in who will win a stupid game show on TV. Really!! NewTs are fascinated by such things. I do dislike them when they have the power to make my life miserable, as when they're my employer> But I'm striving to be financially independent. Oh, and I do INTENSELY DISLIKE THEIR STUPID DRIVING HABITS ! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !



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17 Oct 2006, 5:14 pm

Here's a thought; NTs SUCK!

My boyfriend has a friend with a condition, it isn't ADD/ADHD, but he doesn't have super judgement, and he's very exitable. Which, in an 'NT" would drive me away form them, PRONTO. But him, I deal with just fine and actually LIKE when he comes over to visit. I've only recently realized that AS exits and that I have it, etc. And I now know I like his company because he ISN'T typical. I don't know what his 'condition' is, and I don't care. Because he has a heart and he acts like it and that's all that's ever really been my main preference in a person.

I've dealt with anger (all people related) my whole life, and while I've made the decision NOT to hate people and TRY really hard not to judge, I still think NTs suck. For the most part. Hey, I suck at things to, but with most NTs its like they don't even try to be nice or respectful to ANYONE. And I'm done putting up with people like that, or at least the attitude. From now on when its at all reasonable that I open my mouth they are going to hear what I think about their insensitive, un-thoughtful bull**** ways and opinions. <period



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17 Oct 2006, 5:27 pm

You're absolutely right. They don't even try, and that's what's absolutely unforgivable.


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17 Oct 2006, 6:12 pm

Litigious wrote:
You're absolutely right. They don't even try, and that's what's absolutely unforgivable.


That's the thing though, thank-you for relating (if you were referring to MY previous post), but I strongly believe in forgivness. And I do forgive people often and do my best to know when to apoligize to people and I do. But with NTs (and I try to only generalize 'them' as 'that' for communication purposes), they almost ALWAYS turn around and do/say the same thing again very shortly after. UGH! I often feel like hauling supplies 40 kilometers back in the woods, (possible where I live) and building a solar bubble paradise for myself and only coming out when I absolutely have to.



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17 Oct 2006, 7:43 pm

I don't hate NTs. I just tend to see myself as a seperate and aloof individual.


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