You should have told her this is my hand I could use to make a fist or to simply extend my middle finger (Giving her the bird) then walk out and find another doctor. The doctor sounds like it going to screw you out of your ssi. She should just come out say she is going to sandbag you so you could not declare yourself disabled to get the help you need.
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There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. Some kind of high powered mutant never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die -Hunter S. Thompson