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09 May 2005, 1:08 am

Wow, if anything, I would think the stereotype is that Asians, not Westerners, are more left brained than Westerners! The stereotype is that Asians value tradition (i.e., sameness, routine), attention to detail (the Japanese auto industry) and rigid protocol (Japanese social hierarchy), and conscientiousness to the more right-brained norms of the United States.



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09 May 2005, 1:15 am

No offense intended, but all I should say is that I highly doubt the credibilty of the left/right brain theories.



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09 May 2005, 11:32 am

And now for something I found on another AS board:

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/phpBB2/ ... php?t=1301

It seems like in Japan, there is a general lack of information on autism...but more interesting is that it has brought up the topic on cultural differences and AS.

But take note of these two messages:

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Hello everyone. I just joined this forum a few days ago. I've been reading the posts and this one caught my attention because I'm an aspie who was born in Japan. My own mother had the same attitude discussed in the article. She thought it was her fault that I have AS. I know it wasn't her parenting but I think it made things worse for me. She always knew I was different but couldn't accept my differences. I hate to say this but the culture of Japan is not good for aspies. Bullying seems to be an ingrained part of it.


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Well, I can understand the uneasiness of some Japanese as Japanese society is extremely collectivist and puts emphasis on being members of a group, including the family, school, and business group. Even personal names reflect this, in that the family name is put before the personal name, such as in the name "Yamaguchi Midori" -- "Midori Yamaguchi" in Western-style notation. Autistic people, being extreme individualists by nature, would definitely have a hard time over there.


For this one, I can tell you that it is similar in Chinese culture, where your family name is put before the personal name.



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09 May 2005, 1:30 pm

Hmm. Punks and nerds generally get on well even if the Nerds are 'teachers pets'. Same with most small subcultures. Punk is a form of Rock music, for one. And Nerds are amongst the Rock music fans by far. I admit, I count under this. Lets see. My PC table CD rack, and 1/4 of another are all full of Rock CDs and I have only got like 10% of the ones I want. :P

I have many freinds who r either punks, goths, nerds or another sub group.
My mate Shaun: Goth
Nathan: Punk
Steven: Nerd
Oleg: Russian who lives in UK
Kevin: The StickMan....
Robert: LOTR nut.. Also a rugby player, which is useful if I ever get attacked :P


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09 May 2005, 3:15 pm

The different cultures and subsultures have different ways to respond to AS. Western culture I think is not that great in its emphasise on socialising, but it can be good in the therapy culture and by the sense of soul searching. Asian culture is good in its work ethics, but it puts the family before the individual (which can be bad).

Punks- they treat AS quite well as I have not had problems from punks as they are friendly.
Skaters and extreme sports fans- friendly to AS and enjoy the individuality.
Hippies- friendly and are impressed by individuality.
Goths- awesome and impressed by individuality.
Nerds- very similar.
Metalheads- impressed by individuality.
Chavs- scum. They are crap-brained, dumbass, conformist b*****s who despise all who can actually think for themselves and do not need to drag their knuckles around.


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09 May 2005, 3:26 pm

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Care to give your perspective to someone who has never worked outside the country? Like I said, I might just be having a case of "the grass is greener on the other side."
I'm probably the wrong person to ask, since I am studying in an institution that prides itself on being nerdy and weird. So I would say that the grass is definitely greener in my tiny patch of the field, but conformism is probably more rampant in other environments in the US. The students here are noticeably more intellectually independent and curious than your average S'porean automaton who is in school just to earn grades. I did notice, though, that other aspies here (yes, there is a small aspie club in my college) don't seem to have family problems: their families seem to be quite supportive of their condition, unlike mine. One thing that works against AS, though, is that Americans are generally noisier and more extroverted.

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In the case of travial socializing, I'm sure you are aware of the stereotype of the shallow chinese/japanese girl who spends way too much time on their cell phone. While stereotypes are never 100% true, keep in mind that they come from somewhere and have a basis in reality.
I am not aware of this stereotype, at least not in a specifically Asian context. Doesn't it apply across cultures?

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As for attention to detail, in subjects thaught in school, there is a penalty known as "excess denied", meaning you actually lose marks for over-elaboration on a report. Despite my difficulties in an education system completely tailored towards superficiality, I managed to pull of average results in the GCE O levels. I think its got to do with the fact that it was a UK examination and that it was individual work. At present I am enrolling in Ngee Ann Polytechnic.
I think the UK system is alright actually. I think it's hard to escape superficiality at pre-university levels, since you have to strike a balance between a successful but shallower understanding versus teaching profound material that will not be understood by most. I'm also doubtful that "Asian" education systems particularly favour "attention to detail", but S'pore is not a good case study since it copies the UK.



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09 May 2005, 3:48 pm

Not that I'm trying to correct or insuly anybody, but wasn't it mention earlier that S'pore imitates the Swiss school system? Because now people are saying UK.

Anyways, US has some major regional differences when it comes to culture and society. It's like multiple countries sharing the same name sometimes. I live in Florida. While geographically, it's Southern, the culture is not. It's not you're stereotypical Southern state.

I don't know anything about S'porean culture, but most people here accept me for who I am. I don't conform, and people don't care. Well, most people. I go to a weird school, at least that's what most people say when they move here. A lot of people do drugs, so conforming is no big deal.


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09 May 2005, 6:15 pm

Sarcastic_Name,

I don't see anyone who likened the Swiss educational system to the S'porean system. Singapore has a standardised UK-style A-level examination system, and most of the exams are still graded by examiners in Cambridge.



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09 May 2005, 9:47 pm

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Although Singapore always claimed they wanted to emulate the Swiss, the education system here is very opposite, with aims of making people "Well rounded" and "allowing them to sample a bit of everything." Finding a niche is discouraged in Singapore.


OK, I was a little wrong. I said Singapore imitates, which is something like emulating.


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10 May 2005, 12:54 am

It is interesting that the Singaporeans still use the UK to inspire them. The presence of the empire is all around.


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03 Nov 2005, 11:23 pm

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I'm not sure...I had always felt that Asian culture woudl be easier on an aspie than American! :o

It seemed to me that there would be less petty and trivial socializing, and that attention to detail, perfectionsim, and doing well in book subjects would be rewarded.


As a Singaporean: Not true. People are people and people are trivial.


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I think there is less eye contact and less touching, and from what I can tell, less loudly blaring perfumes (the ones here in the U.S. soemtimes make me physically ill, and they are almost always artificial). Seems like solitude and quietness would have more value there. Here, if you're a loner, it implies that you are very antisocial, hate people, and are possibly dangerous. Quiet and peace aren't very valued, Americans tend to want some sort of noise going all the time.


I hated it in the US, frankly. (Though, I was in the midwest - shittiest place on earth) In the US there is a similar sort of discrimination/conformity... but, you're more likely to meet eclectic people if you're in big cities like nyc.

Well, I would really think europe is best for aspies, especially german. they're much more openminded. Minus places like nth England and rural areas, of course.

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My grandma is Filipino, though. She always put a lot of emphasis on appearance, and "what will people think!" and didn't leave me a lot of choice as far as personal style in clothes. She would get impatient with me a lot because she didn't understand me. On the other hand, her ways of showing affection were more comfortable for me than those of my western family members. She never gave me sloppy smooshy kisses.


It's probably more affectionate in other areas, afaik. But there's also a strong sense of community/prejudice whichever.


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04 Nov 2005, 5:22 pm

Hooray for resurrecting a long-dead thread! I didn't know it existed!

I have been wondering for some time now whether the presence of tonal languages has an affect on diagnosis of ASD's. I mean, if a person has trouble picking up tone of voice as many people on the Spectrum do, how on earth do they survive with a language where there are four different words that only vary by the tone of voice?!


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04 Nov 2005, 10:17 pm

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Hooray for resurrecting a long-dead thread! I didn't know it existed!

I have been wondering for some time now whether the presence of tonal languages has an affect on diagnosis of ASD's. I mean, if a person has trouble picking up tone of voice as many people on the Spectrum do, how on earth do they survive with a language where there are four different words that only vary by the tone of voice?!


Why, hello!

I am extremely sensitive to tone of voice. It affects me greatly if somebody sounds harsh or whatever. So, I understand that pretty well! It's just when people mispronounce things or have a very thick accent that I don't understand. It's the same with English, basically.

I speak very standard chinese. One of the things I never got was why people couldn't do pinyin. (ie: Assign the tone & the English syllables to Chinese words.)

Also, with things like Japanese the tone is more subtle and less pronounced. But that goes hand in hand with culture, IMO.


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05 Nov 2005, 12:26 am

Interesting! I had heard that there are a fair few Aspies/Auties that have trouble distinguishing tone of voice.


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20 Oct 2006, 8:41 am

one of the first few things that struck me was how my 'weirdness' had never been spotted. i do recall several occasions where my mother was called down to school regarding my 'odd' behaviour. a nun asked her if i had a learning disability due to the fact that i didn't interact and seldom spoke, even when spoken to. her immediate reaction was that of outrage and surprise, "i can not shut her up at home! she never stops asking me questions!"

a little late to resurrect this thread?

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20 Oct 2006, 11:20 am

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To top that off, before leaving school everyone of us had to write testimonies about our peers. These testimonies will follow you for the rest of your life and arguably the thing that future employers pay the most attention to.


I did not know that MOE now requires something as stupid as peer testimony. I am a Singaporean too although I am probably a little older than you. This system of having peers write testimonies will almost certainly victimize Aspies. Can you please confirm? How does the system actually work?