pumibel wrote:
I was thinking about this subject of animals today because in the past my daughter has accused me of being more affectionate towards the animals. I apologized to her for it, explained that they are easier to pick up and cuddle and have nice soft fur LOL. She is a big girl now and I cant pick her up and do that stuff to her anymore. Nor does she have fur. I love my dauighter more than anything.
But I cant say the same for the men who have come and gone in my life. It is another story for them . I really did love the animals more. My ex husband was really angry about it. I had to go away for two weeks to a military school, and I left him money for the cat's food (he wouldn't buy it) and asked him to feed the cat while I was gone. When I flew back home a coworker picked me up at the airport and we went to Walmart, where my husband worked, to buy something. He was horrified that I was back already and asked why I didn't call him to pick me up-(duh, he was working!). So I go home and there is no cat food and no cat. When he got home he had a bag of food and tells me he hasn't seen the cat in while. I never saw the cat again. Two weeks later he was heading back home to his mom with his belongings and I never saw him again either. I wonder what he did to my cat, but it is probably better I don't know.
That totally reinforces why I love the cats more than most humans. The cat just loved me. He would follow me around, come running up to me and jump into my arms when I would come home. He never bothered my ex.
At no time would I get rid of my pets for a guy. I don't think I am capable of loving a man enough to send the animals packing. And they make allergy medicines for pets allergies so that is no excuse.
I agree with you there. Of course animals are better to pick up and cuddle.

And kiss, too. Plus, they never grow up. My kitty lives in eternal kittenhood.
How could he have done something like that?! That's so horrible!