y-pod wrote:
I always heard autism is mostly genetic. Can they skip generations? I suspected that my dad is an aspie as he's an eccentric scientist, is pretty quirky and has no friends. I finally convinced him to take the AQ test and he only scored 22 points, whereas I got 44. I suppose it's possible that there are a few English words he might not be too sure about, but still there's just no way he could have missed that many. So he probably really is just a geek and scientist, not an aspie.
I don't know why but somehow that makes me feel lonely. Like if I didn't get it from him, where did I get it from? It now feels like my fault, I'm the one who started this all and made my kids autistic.
It's possible for genes to be expressed in, for instance, your dad's mother and in you, but not in the individual who passed these genes on to you, i.e. your dad.
It does sound like your dad has some autistic traits, though. Just not enough to be labeled "autistic". Any line that is drawn between "autistic" and "not autistic" is arbitrary. Does your mother maybe also have some of these traits, ones that are different from your dad's, and your parents' autism-related genes accumulated in you?
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