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22 Aug 2011, 8:08 pm

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Look, I know 'aspies' are socially ret*d and all that, but that doesn't give an excuse to not try to act normal.

As for your last question: I have a suggestion but I'd rather not say.


Socially ret*d? isn't that nice. :roll:


Normal? whats normal? and why should we try to act like it?



Not my fault we act like that. Well it is my fault in my case.

Normal is a wonderful thing where you can do things that make a difference and contribute to the world instead to laying around in your parent's house doing whatever your fixation is.


If you're going to be this way, you should leave. I'm getting sick and tired of seeing your sterotypical posts.[/quote)


Then don't read them.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:14 pm

Try to show a little restraint on those type of posts, at least.


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22 Aug 2011, 8:19 pm

MakaylaTheAspie wrote:
Try to show a little restraint on those type of posts, at least.



It wouldn't surprise me if you'd get pissed at anything I say. Wether I tone it down or not.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:22 pm

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Try to show a little restraint on those type of posts, at least.



It wouldn't surprise me if you'd get pissed at anything I say. Wether I tone it down or not.


Not so much pissed. I am a little irritated though.


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22 Aug 2011, 8:30 pm

I don't understand what's offensive about this.

"socially ret*d" is a very accurate term I would use to describe myself. I can't argue with that.


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22 Aug 2011, 8:37 pm

AmyF wrote:
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Look, I know 'aspies' are socially ret*d and all that, but that doesn't give an excuse to not try to act normal.

As for your last question: I have a suggestion but I'd rather not say.


Socially ret*d? isn't that nice. :roll:


Normal? whats normal? and why should we try to act like it?



Not my fault we act like that. Well it is my fault in my case.

Normal is a wonderful thing where you can do things that make a difference and contribute to the world instead to laying around in your parent's house doing whatever your fixation is.


Being normal makes you do things that make a difference and contribute to the world? since when? Most people who have changed the world for the better were not considered 'normal' because they dared to go against the grain.

I don't know where you are getting the thing about laying around in their parents house from and why you consider it an insult. Don't most people who are not old enough to live on their own do that anyway? even nt's.

What is your definition of normal? It seems to change a lot, at one it was considered not normal to be gay.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:38 pm

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I don't understand what's offensive about this.

"socially ret*d" is a very accurate term I would use to describe myself. I can't argue with that.


I don't know about you, but I don't like to think of anything different as ret*d.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:41 pm

Dear AmyF,

Thanks for the love letter PM (sarcasm). This person has succumbed to the trend of narcissism and hopefully will snap out of it when a more pleasant trend is alive.

For those who are religious please pray for her in hopes that this darkness within will stop controlling her and she will be free from the shackles of Reality TV and Tyra Banks. She needs help and she can't help but to insult people and seek attention. The poor thing must have had a trust fund and hasn't had to work hard in life.



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22 Aug 2011, 8:44 pm

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Dear AmyF,

Thanks for the love letter PM (sarcasm). This person has succumbed to the trend of narcissism and hopefully will snap out of it when a more pleasant trend is alive.


I already deal with one narcissist in my life. I don't want another one.


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22 Aug 2011, 9:03 pm

Freak-Z wrote:
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I don't understand what's offensive about this.

"socially ret*d" is a very accurate term I would use to describe myself. I can't argue with that.


I don't know about you, but I don't like to think of anything different as ret*d.


But I am actually ret*d in some aspects. As a whole, I agree, AS is a difference. But in some instances, such as reading people's emotions subconsciously, yes, I very well am ret*d. I would also go as far to say that people who are colorblind are have color retardation, and people who can't hear well have audio retardation. This does not, however, mean that they are mentally ret*d. There's a big difference there.


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22 Aug 2011, 10:12 pm

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Normal is a wonderful thing where you can do things that make a difference and contribute to the world instead to laying around in your parent's house doing whatever your fixation is.


Thomas Jefferson, Bill Gates, Tim Burton, Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, and Vincent Van Gogh weren't/aren't normal. It looks like being abnormal empowers us to make history.



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23 Aug 2011, 12:12 am

Young supposedly normal people are easy to influence if they respect you, and can often be convinced to be interested in anything, and you will be thanked later when they become accomplished professionals. On the other hand, our social disorder allows us to make choices based on different rules and have interests that don't change easily. We are more able to think deeper into our area of interest, making us great at specialization in a particular field. Our dislike of the high plasticity of interests and conversations which leads to only a shallow understanding of life is both a weakness and a strength.

Being highly adaptable, as a supposedly NT person is, has its down sides. In addition to the difficulty of learning deep subjects mentioned above, it enables one to forget information easily if it is found to be unnecessary to ones life in the short term. It also keeps people from getting too grounded and rooted, with the exceptions of pronounced experiences that are more difficult to erase. It also makes people more basic and interested in the needs of life such as reproductive issues and being accepted.

Supposedly NT and people with AS are right in their judgements and defenses of each other in that both ways are right and wrong. Unfortunately, one can not have the strengths of both without putting in considerable effort to be something he or she is not. It's hard for people whose "social brains" are wired for separate purposes to feel comfortable together, but it is the NT's responsibility to accommodate the person with AS, due to their adaptability and social ease. It is best that people with AS have some respect for the NT way of life, but it is probably better that people with AS group together in a kind of scientific arrangement, working on tasks applicable to their obsessions.

Without survivalists (NT's) there can be no dependent class of specialists (Aspies), and without specialists, there can be no superior advancement of mankind. Well, I hope you can figure how this relates to the topic...



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23 Aug 2011, 1:05 am

Now that was beautiful. :)


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23 Aug 2011, 9:11 am

AmyF = TROLL STATUS CONFIRMED.



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23 Aug 2011, 9:13 am

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A "nice guy" Is someone who pretends to be a woman's friends in hopes that they'll sleep with them after they break up with their "jerk" boyfriends. They're often women-haters too.


oh I don't want ANYONE to sleep with me. don't you f*****g get it?



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23 Aug 2011, 10:09 am

I THINK IT'S LAME AND BORING.