Do you like being touched when...?

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I hate it when people touch me when I don't expect it, and if I am already feeling upset, it makes my urge to react so strong I can't stand it.

I scream and make a fuss if a person I know hugs me when I am stressed. If I know it is coming with a stranger or someone I am not used to hugging I can stay collected and sane otherwise I have a panic attack and the overload drives me insane but I try and calm down as fast as possible.

Normally I don't mind if someone does as long as I kind of expect it. But when Im stressed... its not a good Idea. Ive hurt people close to me (Not physically but Emotionally) when that happens.

if done 'the right way' by a person i trust, a (deep) hug can reduce my stresslevels by a lot, but random touches by random persons make me scream from the shock and touch itself...

Ugh, no. Thankfully, people very rarely try to touch me. I guess my body language projects the "no touchy" vibes by default.

no. I hate stuff like that. If I am extremely upset I'd prefer to be by myself.

I like being touched and I love hugging and being hugged. Is this just me?

Also, I am really awkward socially and sometimes my awkwardness has been major drawback for me. I don't know many social rules. I have many reasons to think I have Asperger Syndrome.

(btw I'm not highly sensitive)